AdviceHelp

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"I got really close with this girl this year who ended up ruinin my friendship with my best friend and once a guy liked me she made sure that he would like her and I said that I didn't like him anymore but now there going out and I don't know if I can trust her should I still be friends with her or should I find someone who i can trust?"

I think that you should find someone that you can trust.

Cause in my opinion, I think she used you.

Try talking things out with you ex-best friend.

And with the other guy, they won't last long.
If she couldn't simply be a trustwworthy friend, just imagine her in a relationship.


I hope this helps!

Need ANY advice?

Comment on my page, and I will make a quote about it!

I will not mention names, but I will read the comment, delete it, and make the quote.

I will try to help ANYONE who needs advice.

 

 

 

"I sit here crying, i've lost so many friends this summer~I thought they were friends~ Im blocking everyone of so I dont get hurt, Recently people have been offending me over facebook:/ ~ex selfharmer~ Then my whole family starts on me ive had enough of this :["

Now your family DOES care about you, I know that.
And I am sorry that those mean people are trying to bring you down.

You CAN'T give in though. You will have such a great life, and when you're sad for five minutes, thats five minutes of happiness you can't get in your life.

You WILL find friends who care.

And if you have to, you can be independent! 
You have soo much beauty, and people shouldn't have to bring you down cause they are jealous!

If you ever start having sucidial thoughts (That DOES NOT mean that you will) heres my advice:

1) Talk to someone. A counselor, a parent (YES they do care, and love you), or just a trusted adult.

2) 
1-800-273-8255   <---  This is a suicide hotline number. Talk to them, they WILL help.



PLEASE stay strong for me, and I hope everything will get better 

"So i need help. like i have no idea what to do it keeps me up at night. Like i haven't slept in 2 days.
My ex boyfriend texted me on Friday and said that he was sorry and he missed me. We broke up 4 months ago, because i told him that i went to a party before me and him actually started talking and i did drink first time and last time. When i started talking to him i decided i would never do it again. He made me feel absolutely amazing. He made me smile. We were together for four months. When he texted me on Friday he said he was going crazy because he still likes me and then asked me to go do something with him next Sunday. What do i do. He means the world to me but we had a horrible break up. he told everyone he hated me' and the night we broke up he was so mad at me that he asked 3 of my friends including my best friend for pictures and a bunch of other stuff. i reaally need someone to tell me what to do. Is it a bad idea if he wants to get back together? Is he just looking for attention?:'(( i really mmiss him and my feelings for him are strong. He is the only guy who has ever treated me right and looked at me like i was the only girl for him. I miss that."



One thing that I must say, is that why would you want to date a guy who decieved you, and is obviously a gossip?

I don't think you should get back together.
Especially with someone immature.

He was blinded by ONE incident. And if he will be soo immature, as to not talk to you about this.
I don't think it will be worth it.


I bet that you will find someone better.
Someone who will work things out, and talk about it, instead of not even thinking.

Find someone who will love you for you, and if that doesn't work out, get some really good friends and have fun!

Need ANY advice?

Comment on my page, and I will make a quote about it!

I will not mention names, but I will read the comment, delete it, and make the quote.

I will try to help ANYONE who needs advice.

 

 

 

Need ANY advice?

Comment on my page, and I will make a quote about it!

I will not mention names, but I will read the comment, delete it, and make the quote.

I will try to help ANYONE who needs advice.

 

 

 

Need ANY advice?

Comment on my page, and I will make a quote about it!

I will not mention names, but I will read the comment, delete it, and make the quote.

I will try to help ANYONE who needs advice.

 

 

 

"Hello. I saw a couple of your quotes and I wondered whether you could give me some advice? So I have this friend who Ive known for 2 years and we kind of like doing the same things but the problem everything that I love doing, she turns it into a competition. Like even making quotes (who gets the most faves) when I only make quotes to express myself..not for faves. Shes one of my best friends and one of my only friends at school I should say but I dont want to offend her or anything. I hope you can help..thank you!"

Well I am ALWAYS open for questions no matter what subject:)


ANYWAY, my advice for this is simple.

Talk to her about it.
Say something like "Now I LOVE you for being my friend and being there for me, but I really want to talk to you about something that has been bugging me."

If she is the good friend that you describe her to be, then she should COMPLETELY understand.

Just make sure to be gentle!

If she does get offended by this there are two options

1) Try to get a new friend. There should be other people who you have things in common with, so just try to talk to them. I know how you feel about not having many friends, so I understand.

2) Talk to her. Talk as much as you can so you can understand her side of the story, just as much as yours.


Hope this helps! Just be friendly, and be yourself!
"I'm 16, my ex is 21. Im from canada so, its not illegal er nothing lol. We broke up 10 days ago. He told me he loved me, and he cared about me. and we were gonna be together forever. He screwed things up once, and this time he told me that he just needed one chance to make things right. So i gave it to him, and he promised he wouldn't make the same mistakes again. Then he left me for his ex, who he has a kid with, after tellin me he didnt know if he wanted to be single or not. Then he told me that i should have known when he broke up with me the first time. I miss him so much, and we haven't talked since we broke up. I just want him back :("

Okay first thing is why would you want to date him?

I COMPLETELY understand that you love him, but why would you wanna go after someone who doesn't like you back, AND just broke your heart.

Without caring, he broke your heart!

He didn't see ALL the beauty in you, like other guys can!

He's blind.

You have soo much to offer the world, and if he doesn't want ANY of it,
Well thats his loss.

Cause you are an AMAZING girl. And someday A REAL man will reconize that.
Only a real man would. With all of your beauty, intelligence, and kindness, who wouldn't want to date you?

Never EVER let someone break your heart like that.

Cause it won't be worth it.

Especially with a man who led you on, then BAM. Broke your heart.


I HIGHLY recommend finding a NEW guy, who will love YOU for YOU.
"This might be a little long, but I need advice. I'm only 13, but I'm in love. He makes me laugh so much, he makes my heart beat, and when I'm away from him it feels like my heart's being cut open. I want to tell him I love him, but I don't know how!"

Love comes in all shapes and sizes, so I DO believe you when you say that you're in love.
Are you two dating? If you aren't, I reccommend dating him first.
Then wait awhile until you KNOW that the relationship is going well, then tell him.

BUT if you two are ALREADY dating, I recommend taking it slow, and at the right time (YOU WILL KNOW) you should tell him!
Just be yourself, and he should love you right back!

Otherwise, you need to find someone new, cause he just couldn't see the beauty in you.
But I know other guys will!