1 if either. Number 2 isn't worth your time or breath, let alone a relationship. A rude guy will give you nothingbut tears. Trust me when I say this. I "liked" a guy all through 7th grade and he knew it. We started secretly dating since... Well that's another story. All we did was fight and argue and he was a HUGE d/ck. Stay friends at the most unless he shows an honest and complete turnaround. You'll most likely be hanging up on phone calls. Not talking in class. And when you two finally breakup, which took me all of my miserable 8th grade year to do, no thanks to him, you won't talk more than 5 times. I guarentee it. I honestly don't even think I ever liked him either.
My freshman year started last Tuesday. Idk about schools being different and stuff.. but mine is really good. It's what you make of it. Don't let the upper classmen get to you :)
DO NOT call the suicide hotline! They won't help you! They will send people to your house which'll make it ten times worse! DO NOT call the suicide hotline!