I've never forgotten that you're unwell (in fact I kind of remind myself of the fact when I'm having my own difficulties; not as a self-depreciating self-shaming thing, like “your problems aren't real or important because they're lesser in comparison” or as a way of pitying you, but as a way of assuring myself I can get through things, because you have and continue to with the admirable ferocious tenacity that only a Slytherdor could manage) but I don't want to speak to you as if that voice is all there is to you. It isn't and it will never be. Your struggle deserves tact and kindness and understanding and acknowledgment, but you don't deserve to feel alienated at the hands of others because of it. You're just as much a whole and valuable human being as anyone who is completely healthy and happy. Though I'm sure you know this already, I strongly hope that it's never slipped your mind while speaking to me, and that I've never said anything tactlessly triggering or belittling in any conversation we've had, as that was never my intention. ❤
Thank you, Bailey, for always comforting me when I'm feeling down. I love how reliable and caring you are. ♡
I feel like I'm constantly stuck between wanting nobody to know anything about what I'm struggling with, and wanting them ALL to know so they can see how hard it is and how much I sometimes have to fight that they just don't even see. But you're right, and tact and kindness and understanding and acknowledgement has to come from me as well as others. I try to be mature about it but it's just... sometimes a little... hard, you know? I get worn down so easily.
You're always wonderful. I love you. ♡♡♡
If they're some one close who you can trust I say you should always be honest. If they're a mere aquintance that most likely wont do anything besides say "Aww, that's too bad" then don't waste your time.
If someone is having a marriage or something super special and you don't want to distract then tell them you'll survive or something along those lines.
Basically, think about what the person will do with the information. That's all I know.
I want you to do this because if they're good then that's nice but if they're bad then I won't be the only person who vomits her shltty poetry all over witty
Thank you for commenting!! The thing is there are some very personal quotes up that I don't feel comfortable sharing over the Internet anymore. I'm thinking about maybe just going through and deleting those.... bc as you put it in such a lovely way, and I can't believe this, it absolutely warms my heart, there are some other people who care about my silly quotes too ahaha.
I agree with these people...I try to not delete anything of mine because at that stage in my life, it was important to me, and it's good to see how I've grown...and also, Witty idol, so......
Firstly AHHH NOO OMG (/)n (\)
And aha I'm largely the same, I keep a lot of things other people would think are useless but to me represent past growth. But I always do it privately and delete/purge whatever is public. Witty is this weird middle ground for me and I have no idea what to do aha...
But thank you for commenting! <3
I feel like I'm constantly stuck between wanting nobody to know anything about what I'm struggling with, and wanting them ALL to know so they can see how hard it is and how much I sometimes have to fight that they just don't even see. But you're right, and tact and kindness and understanding and acknowledgement has to come from me as well as others. I try to be mature about it but it's just... sometimes a little... hard, you know? I get worn down so easily.
You're always wonderful. I love you. ♡♡♡
i kicked my own axs and now instead of haikus it's turned into actual stories,,
If someone is having a marriage or something super special and you don't want to distract then tell them you'll survive or something along those lines.
Basically, think about what the person will do with the information. That's all I know.
i am a selfish one that needs them
And aha I'm largely the same, I keep a lot of things other people would think are useless but to me represent past growth. But I always do it privately and delete/purge whatever is public. Witty is this weird middle ground for me and I have no idea what to do aha...
But thank you for commenting! <3