BittersweetMemories

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"do it today, it might be against the law tomorrow."

Stephanie. 21. life. beach. adventuring. cosmetology. 
summer. alcohol. dreams. hell.


"i'd rather be someone's shot of whiskey than everyone's cup of tea."

Quotes by BittersweetMemories


Happiness is practice. Exercise your ability
to bounce back from pain or depression.
Never stay underwater too long.
You have to come back to life.


 

REMEMBER
If you give up, it's over.
You don't get a second chance.
[at life.]

When you stop trying to find the right person
and start becoming the right person, the
right one will eventually find their way to you.

 

Share your energy where its appreciated,
not where its abused.


 

Holding on is just holding you back.

 
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make 
a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to
work. You can't force someone to care about
you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You 
can't force someone to be the person you need
them to be. Sometimes the person you want
most is the person you're better off without. You
have to understand that some things are meant
to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things 
are meant to come into your life, just not meant
to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's
meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship
you need from someone who isn't ready to give it
to you. And you might not understand why now, 
but I promise you, your future will always bring an
understanding of why things didn't work out. 
Trust me. Don't put your happiness on hold for
someone who isn't holding onto you. Some chapters
just have to close without closure. That's just how it is.

We care so much to be judged on how our emotions
will be percieved that we hold back what's real.


 


"Someone who is angry is someone who doesn't
know how to handle their suffering. They are the first
victim of their suffering, and you are actually the second
victim. Once we see this, compassion is born in our heart
and anger evaporates. We don't want to punish them
anymore, but instead we want to say something
or do something to help them suffer less."


 

how you treat others is
how you really feel inside

 

You are not obligated to
- be someone's counselor and help them with
their problems if its bad for your mental health
- be there for someone 24/7
- remain friends with someone who emotionally drains you
- maintain negative relationships because
you've been close for so long
- do anything that makes you unhappy



 
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