kiwi*

well, we wouldn't like roller coasters if they stayed neutral the entire time, would we? we like them for their ups and downs.

i didn't even really get a text message about it, either... there's a guy i've liked basically since i met him, and we were so close to going out last year, but i told him no because i wasn't ready (and i really wasn't), only to find out he was with another girl and telling her 'i love you' three weeks later. now, around 8 months later, i still like him, and i'm just finding out that he and one of my really good friends like each other. i only know because i got nosy and asked about something that wasn't my business. everyone, including my sister, knew, but me, and i wouldn't have known about it until they made their dating public and official. i'm always left in the dark. always.

no, i'd like to think of it as being saved from pain that was more than what you're feeling now.

i've got a solution for you. :) care to listen?

if someone else is making you doubt your current relationship, then get out of it. in a lot of cases, this would not be the best thing to do, as relationships aren't always about loving each other 24/7 (which frankly is not possible), but in this situation, it seems appropriate. weigh your choices before you act on one, though. list it out physically. it should help a bit.

i disagree... it's like saying that before saving someone else, you should save yourself first. do you know that saving others before yourself will cause yourself to be saved? it's a bit like happiness. serving others for their happiness will make you happy (once you see their happiness, or knowing that they will be happy). you've got to reach out, not in. reaching in will get you nowhere. i do agree that at some point in your life, you should become comfortable with your body, but it's not necessary to do before someone else does.

Im slightly confused by your analogies...I only think its better to be secure about your body before you let others see it so you don't worry so much about what they think, furthermore, it makes people happier to be comfortable with their bodies.

NOT MY FONT.

:D

:B

reeaaawwwyyyy??? :D

everyone deserves forgiveness. wanna know why? because we deserve everything and if God forgives us, then we should too.

i've been told 3, 5, 7, 9, 10, and 11...

his BAC (blood alcohol consumption) was .04, twice the highest amount anyone under 21 should have. the legal BAC for anyone under 21 (which technically, would still be illegal because they're under 21) is .02
he could've gotten himself killed, and that's not even adding the drugs he had going through his blood along with the alcohol.

my friend that i consider as my big sister has long term memory loss due to a drunk driver and doesn't remember who i am. i don't think he should be freed just because he's famous.

okay, so you're saying that you're not bullying, but rather pointing out her mistakes? is it necessary to point out mistakes? NO. it is not. you don't need to tell her about her flaws and you don't need to tell her about her mistakes. everyone is aware of any mistakes they've made. but when it comes to a point when you're excessively telling her about her mistakes, THAT is bullying. you are a rude person making up ridiculous things about her and her quotes. homophobia and misogyny? really?
how's your life at home?
how secure are you about yourself?
obviously not very secure if you're going out of your way to put others down to the point where they're ready to quit.

My last two replies were just going to be sarcastic but I feel it necessary to point out that being homophobic/misgoynistic or stealing are not little "flaws" or "mistakes".
Stealing peoples copyrighted work is actually a crime, it's not one little "mistake".
Being homophobic and misgoynistic kills, by the way.
Those are not mistakes. Yes, you can go back and apologize for them but you can't IGNORE them.
No ones making these up sis. Just because I'm the first to call her out on her being problematic doesn't mean I'm the first to realize it. Plenty have already seen and taken note of her problematic actions.
And if she's ready to "quit" (which I doubt she will) because she got called out for stealing/etc then maybe it's a good thing -- she'll be able to prioritize that what she did is unacceptable.

Beautiful timing

woop late reply :P yes, that's what i believe :3

:)

if you finished them at the same time, then i'd be worried :P

what am i right about?

"there are things that last forever.
they just arent materialistic c:"

woop late reply :P yes, that's what i believe :3

:)

there are things that last forever.
they just arent materialistic c:

You're so right <3

what am i right about?

"there are things that last forever.
they just arent materialistic c:"

woop late reply :P yes, that's what i believe :3

:)

ehh i dont understand that. i just mean
he thought that just himself would hurt me
so he always pushed me away
he never thought 'would this be good for the relationship'
i mean yeah, obviously your partner's needs will be more important than yours, but...
it got worse over time, to the point where i couldn't even vent to him without him competing with my problems.

jsut remember that nothings is going to last forever.

there are things that last forever.
they just arent materialistic c:

You're so right <3

what am i right about?

"there are things that last forever.
they just arent materialistic c:"

woop late reply :P yes, that's what i believe :3

:)