i have something to confess.
i call myself a tomboy, a punk, whatever. I’ve been calling
myself that for a while now, actually. And I don’t really
remember when it started, or why. But tonight I’ve been
thinking, and I might actually know why. I dress like I
don’t care how I look or what people think. And I
don’t. Parts of me really don’t care. But lately
other parts of me have. I’ve been thinking lately, and I
think there are some other reasons. I think that deep down,
there’s a hidden reason that I’m afraid to try. Deep
down I think to myself that I don’t get boys and I”m
not really considered “pretty” because I don’t
try. And I think to myself that I can actually try and if I
wanted too, and that things could change. And I”m really
afraid that one day I’m going to try to change and actually
get a guy and it’s not going to work. I wear jeans and
loose guy t-shirts because I say I dont care, but I think I
really do. I don’t know. It’s the same thing with
make-up. I haven’t worn make up, like, ever. I tell myself
I don’t wear it because I don’t really care, and I
don’t, but, there’s something else deep down, Deep
down I think to myself that make-up can make me prettier. And I
don’t wear it because I”m afraid to try. I’m
afraid to try it and it doesn’t make me look or feel any
prettier and I’ll still be stuck with me. It really scares
me. I don’t know if this makes any sense, but yeah. I guess
that’s why I’m a tomboy. I’m afraid that if I
actually do try nothing will happen. I’m afraid that
I’ll never be pretty or anything like that even if I do
try. So yea. And that makes me really sad because I don’t
really have anybody telling me I’m pretty, except my
parents or close friends (hey it’s their job) and I know
that everyone else doesn’t really have anyone do it either
but most of my friends are considered really pretty and have guys
flirting with them and then there’s me. I mean don’t
get me wrong, I most of the time I actually don’t care at
all, but then there’s time like this, when I realize that I
AM actually a girl, and that I do really care. and it really
makes me mad. And i”ve never told anyone I know this
before, yet I can tell complete strangers and I feel ok with
that. so if you just read this, congrats, you just found out
something that not even my best friends know about me.