And when people try to minimize your pain, they are
doing you a disservice. And when you try to minimize your
pain, youre doing yourself a disservice. Dont do that. The
truth is, it hurts because its real. It hurts because it
mattered. And thats an important thing to acknowledge to
yourself. And that doesnt mean it wont end, that it wont get
better. Because it it will, -John
Green.