EOTC4590

not ask for advice from people on witty(:

im 16

3 years isnt bad, but how old are you?
and tell him together so he knows its for real.

my brothers friend is 3 years older then me. do you think it would be easier if me and his friend tell him together?? or if i do it by myself??

okay well first of all, how much older is your brother's friend than you? you just have to calmly and carefully tell your brother. he'll eventually get over it and learn to accept it. and since that boy is going away for school, you could be able to hang out more if your brother approved of it. it'd be easier him knwoing than you sneaking around. hope it made sense and helps! [:

he has come to me. i told him i had to think about. because im not sure on what to do. and he is older then me by 2 years. so my brothers friend is serious.

If your brother said he was kidding, I would trust him. It's your brother, and it isn't hard to believe that boys would joke around about something like that. He sounds reasonably older than you. If the boy can't get a chick his own age, you've got to wonder why. Guard your heart, my goodness!

Wait for him to come to you. Dont let it be the other way around. dont wanna seem desperate

yeah i know hes not messing. he told me he likes me and that he wasnt kidding arounf when he told me

Well first of all, do you know for SURE he isnt messing? thats a big factor..