Ok so today I found out that this girl I was
supposedly friends with hates my guts and talks about me a
lot. Normally I wouldn't care about something like that
but I dont know, this just reall hurt me. I've seen this girl
hurt one of my best friends very badly (she would spread rumours
and made up a name for my friend so she could talk about my
friend in front of her wiothout my friend knowing) and ridicule
my sister for self-harming, also she says go kill yourself as a
joke.
She has done so many bad things towards me,
my sister, and my friends but I can't help but feel sad and
angry about it. I have known her for 2 years now and for the 1st
year I didn't talk to her much except for the fact that she
talked with my friends, now this year we have had so many classes
together and spent a lot of time together and talked a lot. We
laughed about movies, laughed at jokes, gossiped about boys, and
did cool friend stuff.
Now after 2 years of knowing each other and 1
year of being very close, I have learned that the entire time she
has gossiped about me, spread lies, makes up things I did to her,
and she is now univiting me to her sweet 16 because I didn't
invite her to mine (I didn't know her at the time), I have
been mean to her (in 2 years I have only spoken back to her 2
times, once about her saying go kill yourself and the other about
her making fun of sister), and because I told my best friend
about the bad things that was being said about her.
I don't know what to do. I want to
confront her so badly but we only have 1 week of school left
(finals) and I have no idea how. I also learned that other people
do not like this girl as well and that she has been mean towards
others as well. I want to ask them to help me confront her but I
am scared that they will say no and it will be only me but
someone needs to put her in her place. Someone needs to make her
realize that what she is doing is not ok and is very, very
harmful.
Any advice? It would be greatly appreciated.