If something I do bothers you, you can say it to me and I
won’t care. I won’t get mad, I’ll stop. I
won’t do it anymore. Your honesty won’t make me mad,
I’ll be glad that you were honest with me and I’ll be
sure to stop whatever upsets you. But what does make me upset is
when you don’t tell me. I especially hate it if someone
else has to tell me for you. You could’ve come up to me and
told me exactly what bugs you and I wouldn’t have cared, I
wouldn’t have been mad. But when someone else has to
deliver the message, I do get mad. And the worst thing is that if
you tell me something makes you mad or bugs you then you expect
me to stop right then and there. But if something you do
makes me mad or bugs me you just continue on with it. So
I’m expected to please everyone but you can get away with
continuing to do something I asked you to stop doing. Oh
I’m sorry I didn’t realize that bothered you. Oh
I’m sorry I didn’t stop because I thought you
didn’t mind. Oh I’m sorry that you didn’t make
it clear that I bugged you. I respect honesty. Be honest with me
and then maybe I won’t get mad