Status: I just need a hug.
Joined: June 12, 2012
Last Seen: 6 years
Birthday: August 23
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Location: Houston, TX
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Quotes by MariaOchoa2014

 "Sometimes you end up never speaking
to someone who meant the world to you again.
And that's okay. You cope and you survive.
Don't let your losses keep you back from new gains."


 How To Love Yourself 
STOP ALL CRITICISM.  Criticism never changes a thing. Accept yourself as you are. Everybody changes, and when you criticize yourself, your changes are negative, When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

DON’T SCARE YOURSELF.  Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.

BE GENTLE, KIND AND PATIENT. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking.

BE KIND TO YOUR MIND. Self-hatred is only hurting your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts, but gently change your thoughts.

PRAISE YOURSELF. Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Tell yourself how well you’re doing with every little thing.

SUPPORT YOURSELF. Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It shows strength to ask for help.

BE LOVING TO YOUR NEGATIVES. Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. As you find new, positive ways to fulfill those needs, you can release the old negative patterns.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY. Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and reverse the person you are.

MIRROR WORK. Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself while looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror, Forgive them, too. At least once a day say “I love you.”

DO IT NOW. Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin now – do the best you can. 

My words are nothing but scattered thoughts, that even I can't seem to understand. I'm just trying to say the right thing that will maybe intoxicate you, the way your words did to me. I hope that one day in the middle of the night when all you have to do is think, that I will cross your mind and my scattered words penetrate your heart. 

I need to stop being so damn
emotional about everything. 


 You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view - until you climb into his skin and walk around in it  

To Kill a Mockingbird


I wish I could be drunk
with things like joy and happiness
instead of constant sorrow and sadness. 
Please don't expect me 
to always be good and kind and loving.
There are times when I will be cold
and thoughtless 
and hard to understand. 
Maybe we all have a lot of soul mates,
each for a different time in our lives.
Maybe every person we ever love is a soulmate in some sense,
and that's why they mean so much to us,
that's why they're so hard to forget.
People change and fall out of love,
but that doesn't mean that at one time,
they weren't perfect for each other

don't leave me alone. 


An 8 yr old boy was screaming at the grocery store
cause his mom wouldn't buy him a chocolate bar.
So I bought one and ate it in front of him.