ProblemSolved

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Hello Wittians!

This is ProblemSolved :)


This profile is somewhere you can post your problems and questions and recieve helpful solutions from me whenever you like...
Don't worry, I'll try my best to answer them all as soon as I can :D

xxx


P.S.

Some people ask me if I'm a teenager.
Yes, I am, and I've been through a lot, so don't be afraid to ask me anything at all, whether it's about school, friends, crushes, or homework, I'll give you the best advice I can


  

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hellyeahitskat 1 decade ago
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Hey there! im writing a story and it would be awesome if you read it! also follow me? :)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Of course :) please don't hesitate to ask if you ever have any problems you'd like me to help you with x
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Amberxoxo324 1 decade ago
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Hey, i kinda have a problem, you see my "best friend" and i used to do everything together, we were inseperable, but then a few months ago she started dating this guy, and she started hanging out with me less and less, and she turned into a huge b*tch, and said a lot of mean things to me, and then we just kind of stopped talking completely. She was telling people that it was my fault and if i would just apologize we could be friends again, but i didnt do anything wrong, so why should i apologize? After a while i started to miss her so i decided to be the bigger person and just apologize, hoping that if i did, she would apologize to me too. But she didnt, she just told me she was glad i realized that i was being childish and that i was ALLOWED to be her friend again. Bullsh*t. So now we are apparentally "friends" again, but she is still being a b*tch to me, and everyone else. I don't know if i should just put up with it, or decide to stop talking to her again. Thank you so much for reading this, i think this account is such a wonderful idea. :)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Thank you :) it sounds pretty tough...it must have been difficult for you when she first met that guy as well... What you could do is catch her when she is on her own and ask her what the problem is. Tell her how you feel about the way she's treating you and say that you're there for her if she needs to talk...if you do this then it'll let her know you still want to be friends and hopefully remind her of all the good times you had together. If this doesn't work and she still won't talk to you, then maybe it's best if you give her a while to think...don't ignore her completely but just stop talking for a while, then maybe she'll see that what she's done is wrong. You shouldn't have to apologise because it isn't your fault, but maybe in time she will apologise to you :) you shouldn't have to put up with that, and because it sounds like you're a lovely person, I'm sure you'll make a new friend in no time :) good luck! x
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Amberxoxo324 1 decade ago
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Thank you!:) I will try to ask her
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Annonymous* 1 decade ago
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First of all, thank you so much for reading this. So here's the thing. Me and my crush get on really well. We talked a lot and flirted (a bit). Yesterday, he got told that I fancy him. My friend asked him if he like me back and he said: 'I dunno really. She is really beautiful and funny and easy to tlk to'... but today in school ot was really awkward, we barely looked at eachother, let alone talk. Should I regret telling him? What do I do from here? This means a lot to me. Thank you... You have no idea how many people you are going to help... Thank you again on behalf of everyone :D
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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He sounds lovely :) if he'll talk to you and admit that he thinks you're beautiful and funny, it does sound like he's into you...! If its awkward at school now, it's probably not because he knows you fancy him but because other people know you fancy him, so maybe you could try asking him if he wants to see a movie with you or go out to dinner sometime...? That way, it'll be just you and him, and it shouldn't be awkward at all :) don't regret telling him, if you didn't tell him now, you probably would have told him later anyway, so it's good that he knows how you feel. If you're feeling confident, perhaps you could ask him directly how he feels about you...? Good luck, and remember, don't bother about what anyone else thinks...this is your life!! :D thank you so much for the lovely comment as well...it means a lot to me :) x
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Annonymous* 1 decade ago
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Thank you so much!! Your comment meant a lot to me! We're back to talking/flirting normally now :P This week just gone, he just hung out with a girl at school, which made me quite jealous. But nevermind, I'll talk to him at school and see if there aee any second intentions between those two. Thanks once again!!! Talk soon x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Yes, I will :) If you've ever got any problems (about school, friends, homework...anything) just ask me! Glad to be helpful :) x
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The Chosen One* 1 decade ago
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Awesome account!!
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Thank you :) just ask if you ever need anything x
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pirateslifeforme* 1 decade ago
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I like a guy but hes a year younger than me . when i wasnt around lots of people told him i like him ( when i hardly knew him and he hardly knew me) he called me a sket but know he smiled at m the other day day and hes in my tuter. 4 monthes ago my friends were asking him out for me and he said no but at first he didnt know my name , his friends are horrible but hedosnt talk to me when imaround but looks at m and might ask me a question where someone is or start talking with me in my conversation g2g plas help
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Perhaps you should try to talk to him...? Maybe catch him when his friends aren't around then you can talk about what you want to...? Sometimes, guys pretend not to like a girl when, in actual fact they do :) just try talking...and if he seems to like you (and you're sure you like him) them you could try asking him out...? Don't feel any pressure, just follow your heart :) x
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hatetheloved 1 decade ago
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Can do. ^-^
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hatetheloved 1 decade ago
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Bro what you're doing here is kick-, keep up the love and support. (:
-Anna
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Thanks (: just lemme know if you ever need anything x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Do you want to take swim lessons? If not, perhaps you should tell them you'd rather not go, and that could you do something else, and hopefully, they'll listen and you'll not have to go. Although it may be hard, you could try facing up to them and tell them about the cuts. Hopefully, they'll be happy to let you do another activity instead of swimming, and you could try telling them how much you don't want to go...? I hope it all goes well, and try not to cut... :) x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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i cant get out of the lessons.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Then you'll have to tell them...they might be able to help you. I understand it will be hard, but it's the only other thing you can do. If you lie to them and tell them you fell, or something like that, they'll probably not believe you, and if they ever did find out, they'd be even angrier that you'd lied. Althernatively, you could wear a wetsuit, but I doubt that would happen...? If you do tell them, pick your moment carefully and tell them not only about the cuts, but the reason why you're depressed and ask if they can help you out. They'll be less mad if you ask them for help, trust me... I hope everything works out :) x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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i feel like i can't tell them. i would have to tell them other things if i did. i cant tell anyone the truth about that. i just want them to think that my back got screwed up from horseback riding...not what really happened. i cant fell them the pain iv gone through...they wouldn't get it. i just cant
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Then tell them about your back...do you think it's the right thing to do? I know it must be so hard for you particularly because you're depressed enough to cut...but perhaps looking for help could be the answer? I really do hope it goes to plan, and you must let me know if it works out or if you want advice on depression :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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i'm scared
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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The only thing scaring you is the unknown...I truly believe that as humans, the unknown is our only threat. The future scares you, but it is up to you what you do with your future. You have to stay strong and don't give up...depression may seem like a bottomless pit, but it just takes a bit of time to overcome. You can't do it alone; you must find some (online or in real life) who will guide you and help you through this...someone you can confide in and trust. Set yourself small goals and work upwards, for example, your first goal could be to not cut for a month, or to keep a 'recovery diary' where you write down your emotions. Believe in yourself and you'll succeed, because there's only you that knows what you feel like. When you're depressed, the simplest things can become difficult, so by starting with small tasks, you can soon work your way up to becoming happy again. Just don't be scared. Replace your fear with anticipation and hope for your brighter future, and the feeling of happiness and pride you'll have when you know it was yourself that achieved it. You can do it. Trust me. I believe in you. Xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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self harm doesnt make you deppressed
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago
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ok i will
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Storyofmylife586 1 decade ago
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thanx u were my first follower
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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That's ok :) if you have any problems, just ask whenever you need to x
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josie* 1 decade ago
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Thankyou for the follow, you were my 101th follower yaayy:']
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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It's ok! If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to talk to me :) x
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josie* 1 decade ago
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Thankss<3
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oxBlondiexo 1 decade ago
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Thanks for the follow love :)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Its ok :) if you need any advice just ask! x
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Fading.From.Reality* 1 decade ago
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Hello. I am Eliza. I really think you are a lovely person, agony aunt sorta :DD Keep going :P
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Hello Eliza :) thank you! I will keep going, and if you ever need any help with anything (school, friends, homework etc.) just ask :) x
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Fading.From.Reality* 1 decade ago
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Ok, thanks xx
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Funfunfunisfun 1 decade ago
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Thanks for the follow.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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That's ok :) you're my 200th follower! If you ever have any problems, just ask me and I'll help you out :) x
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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what do u do if u no something you shouldnt no and if u tell it will ruin everything but if u dont it will come out eventually and u knew it
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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It depends what it is really...if it is something you know about someone that could ruin their lives if someone found out, and it isn't necessary for anyone to know, then it's probably best that you don't say anything. If its something that must be told (for example, someone is self harming etc.) then it's just a matter of finding the right person to tell. Sometimes it's hard to know who to tell, but try talking to someone you trust and finding out what they'd do about it. Also, before you say anything, be sure that it is 100% true :) if it is about a person, maybe you could talk to them or hint that you know...? It really depends on what it is that you know, and in what situation you found out about it :) x
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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what if this issue is something to do with you, like you took part in this thing but it is hurting those involved? and my friend has the same part as me in it only its worse for her x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Then perhaps you should speak out...it seems as if the issue is weighing you down and making you feel guilty, so perhaps speaking out may make you feel a bit better. If, as you say, everyone will eventually know anyway, you may as well speak up now. They say you only regret the things you don't do, so maybe you'd be better of saying something. Put yourself in the position of the person involved; would you prefer it if you spoke out? :) x
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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no because im good at keeping secrets so it doesnt bother me
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Ahh ok, so do you think it would be better if you waited until everyone knew anyway? :) x
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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All I know is when they find out everyone will be hurt and mad
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Just follow your heart...regardless of what anyone else thinks. You need to do what you think is right; try to consider whether it would be more hurtful if you waited, or if you spoke out now. It's completely your decision, but be aware that what you do will affect everyone else involved. I'm sure you'll make the right decision :) x
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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Any advice on a friend who's pregnant but is scared? Xxxxxxxxxc
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Do her parents know? If I were her, I would let the parents and the father know first, before anyone else (other than friends) know. She should perhaps try talking to the people closest to her, and maybe ask them for advice. As a friend, its your job to re-assure her that she'll be ok and taht you'll stand by her no matter what. Tell her not to worry and that it'll all work out. get her to focus on all the fun parts of being a mom, and maybe take her out places (eg. shopping, cinema) to take her mind off things if she doesn't want to think about it :) just stand by her and look after her; she needs you now xxxxx
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Alison_Is_A 1 decade ago
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She came to me but nobody knows only some of our friends :( hey could I ask u advice on something I recently lost a best friend do death and I miss them is there any idea u have to help me remember her like I always look at photos in a book she made of us and gave me but I miss her now more than ever and nobody understands how much alone you feel my friends feel lost too but I talk to them but she was always my favourite and said I was hers too it makes me feel low without her xxxxx
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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I can imagine you miss her very much :( looking at the photo book is a lovely way to remember her; little reminders of your times together will constantly make you think of her. Maybe you could put little things around your room to remind you of her, for example, presents she bought you, or photographs? It must be so difficult to lose someone close to you, and its good to know you remember the good memories and talking to your other friends is the best thing you can do; this way, you can relive the memories together. She'd want you to remember her like this, but I'm sure you'd never forget her, no matter what. Hopefully, your lonely feeling will soon go; she'd probably not want you to feel like this...other people will be able to help, but just be strong :) xxxxx
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*compassionate soul* 1 decade ago
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What do you do when you date a guy for a few months and then he breaks it off and any time you talk or hang out it seems awkward until it isn't anymore and a few months later you think he may be into you again and want him to ask you out but don't want to wait too long for him to do so or aren't even sure he will...?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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First of all, don't worry about it. Asking someone out should be exciting not scary...the worst he can do is say no, and I'm sure he won't! He sounds like he's really into you, but before you ask him out, remember why you split up the first time and think about if this will still be a problem second time around. If you want to wait for him to ask you out, you could, but it might get tedious waiting...! If I were you, I'd go for it! Good luck! :) x
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ChocoTaco 1 decade ago
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I love the concept of this account!
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Thank you (: if you ever need any advice, just ask!
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ChocoTaco 1 decade ago
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I definitely will <3
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spence* 1 decade ago
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can I ask for advice??
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Yes :) any time x
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spence* 1 decade ago
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Well first I have a crush on this guy he told me that he liked me but he always spends time with this other girl always flirts with her calls her beautiful amazing perfect but he doesn't say that to me I want to be with him but I think he is pushing me away I got jealous and got drunk then I want to talk to him but this girl is always there with him what should I do?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Try and catch him when he is on his own and have a long chat with him about music, TV, anything really. Chatting to him will be the best way to get to know him better, or if you don't feel up to talking to him to his face, message or text him. It takes a lot for a guy to admit he likes a girl, do for him to say that to you must be pretty special :) if you're sure you like him, you could meet up with him sometime (without the other girl) then hopefully, he'll tell you how he feels...don't let this other girl get to you. She's probably just trying to make you jealous :) hope it all goes well x
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spence* 1 decade ago
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Well thanks for the advice maybe i will do its thanks :D
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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It's ok :D x
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spence* 1 decade ago
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OMG!! ur advice worked :o
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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:) I am glad! What happened? x
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spence* 1 decade ago
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:D well i told him that what you said and he said well im jut trying to be nice im not a bad boy and i said i know then he said well im just that kind of guy that is crazy for you i was blushing like an idiot then he kissed me on the cheek :o i was about to die then i left :(
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Wow! :D I hope everything in the future goes well! Good luck! :) x
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spence* 1 decade ago
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i hope soo to :D
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elephants_are_cool* 1 decade ago
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thanks for the follow ♥
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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That's ok :) ask for advice whenever you want! x
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[deleted] 1 decade ago
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yeah well there is this guy i met on witty. so we started talking and he helped me with many of my problems. then i helped him with his. we became best friends even if we had never seen each others face. we lived too far so we couldnt meet. after time he told me he loved me and asked me to move at his town so we could date. it was too expensive and i was already in a relationship so i said no. then he told me he was a vampire. i didnt beleive him. he told me that if i knew anything more that they would come hunt me and kill me. so i got angry cause he wouldnt tell anything elese. now we havent spoke in weeks and i really miss him cause he was the only one that knew all my probs and the real me but didnt abandon me, helpppp?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Ok, maybe you should just try messaging him again, like you did when you were best friends...? Tell him you miss him as a friend and let him know he was the one you confided in. He'll appreciate that. If he doesn't talk to you any more, it's his loss, and although it may be hard at first, you will move on. Maybe you could ask him to help you with one of your problem and tell him you asked him because he's the only one who can help. I hope it all goes well :) x
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[deleted] 1 decade ago
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yeah i guess, thnx a lot honey you are great <3
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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Thank you <3 you know where I am if you ever need any advice...let me know how it goes :) x
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hoobubbly 1 decade ago
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Hey, sorry to bother you but I kinda have a problem. All the people I like always fall for my bestfriend and I was started to get really annoyed with that. Then she moved schools and we still meet up and talk, but she has changed loads. She has had 2 boyfriends in 2 months, and she flirts with other guys! Also, she didn't get me a birthday present but found the time to get her boyfriend, who she's only known for a couple of months, loads of valentines day stuff. I really don't like who she's become and I don't know wether to just ignore it and move on with my life, or to confront her. Help?! thankyou so much for your time:)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago
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It's ok :) if you choose to ignore her, then it will show you whether she is prepared to save your friendship or not. If I were you, I'd try and confront her about it, because it shows you are concerned and that you are prepared to continue your friendship. You will also be able to tell if she feels the same way based on her reaction. Maybe she just needs a little space (sistas before mistas/bros before hoes etc.) and perhaps if you leave it a while after talking to her, then things may return back to normal...? Alternatively, you could try and have a conversation with her without mentioning her boyfriend(s)! She's guaranteed to need a friend like you soon, so I'd try to stick by her :) x
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