ProblemSolved

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Hello Wittians!

This is ProblemSolved :)

This profile is somewhere you can post your problems and questions and recieve helpful solutions from me whenever you like...
Don't worry, I'll try my best to answer them all as soon as I can :D

xxx


P.S.
Some people ask me if I'm a teenager.
Yes, I am, and I've been through a lot, so don't be afraid to ask me anything at all, whether it's about school, friends, crushes, or homework, I'll give you the best advice I can


  

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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Of course :) please don't hesitate to ask if you ever have any problems you'd like me to help you with x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Yes, I will :) If you've ever got any problems (about school, friends, homework...anything) just ask me! Glad to be helpful :) x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thank you :) it sounds pretty tough...it must have been difficult for you when she first met that guy as well... What you could do is catch her when she is on her own and ask her what the problem is. Tell her how you feel about the way she's treating you and say that you're there for her if she needs to talk...if you do this then it'll let her know you still want to be friends and hopefully remind her of all the good times you had together. If this doesn't work and she still won't talk to you, then maybe it's best if you give her a while to think...don't ignore her completely but just stop talking for a while, then maybe she'll see that what she's done is wrong. You shouldn't have to apologise because it isn't your fault, but maybe in time she will apologise to you :) you shouldn't have to put up with that, and because it sounds like you're a lovely person, I'm sure you'll make a new friend in no time :) good luck! x
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Amberxoxo324 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thank you!:) I will try to ask her
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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He sounds lovely :) if he'll talk to you and admit that he thinks you're beautiful and funny, it does sound like he's into you...! If its awkward at school now, it's probably not because he knows you fancy him but because other people know you fancy him, so maybe you could try asking him if he wants to see a movie with you or go out to dinner sometime...? That way, it'll be just you and him, and it shouldn't be awkward at all :) don't regret telling him, if you didn't tell him now, you probably would have told him later anyway, so it's good that he knows how you feel. If you're feeling confident, perhaps you could ask him directly how he feels about you...? Good luck, and remember, don't bother about what anyone else thinks...this is your life!! :D thank you so much for the lovely comment as well...it means a lot to me :) x
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Annonymous* 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thank you so much!! Your comment meant a lot to me! We're back to talking/flirting normally now :P This week just gone, he just hung out with a girl at school, which made me quite jealous. But nevermind, I'll talk to him at school and see if there aee any second intentions between those two. Thanks once again!!! Talk soon x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Yes, I will :) If you've ever got any problems (about school, friends, homework...anything) just ask me! Glad to be helpful :) x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thank you :) just ask if you ever need anything x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Perhaps you should try to talk to him...? Maybe catch him when his friends aren't around then you can talk about what you want to...? Sometimes, guys pretend not to like a girl when, in actual fact they do :) just try talking...and if he seems to like you (and you're sure you like him) them you could try asking him out...? Don't feel any pressure, just follow your heart :) x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Don't worry..only you know if you're doing well, and if you think you are then you must be...:) nowadays, AS levels aren't everything and you'll be able to find work (and happiness) with no qualifications. Keep doing what you're doing and be brave :) you'll fix it x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I need my A Levels for the job i want though so i have to pass them properly. Thanks anyway, i'll think about things.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Helping yourself is the best way out :) start with small goals and work your way up...I promise, it'll all turn out ok. If you ever want to talk, just ask...I'm human! :D x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Thanks. Well i thought i was fixing things and doing well but everything has just gone wrong. To top everything off i just failed my AS Levels. Great.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Don't worry..only you know if you're doing well, and if you think you are then you must be...:) nowadays, AS levels aren't everything and you'll be able to find work (and happiness) with no qualifications. Keep doing what you're doing and be brave :) you'll fix it x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I need my A Levels for the job i want though so i have to pass them properly. Thanks anyway, i'll think about things.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Is there anything I can do to help? Xx
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I don't think so, not this time. I think i need to work out how i can help myself to be fair, i'm just not sure how...x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Helping yourself is the best way out :) start with small goals and work your way up...I promise, it'll all turn out ok. If you ever want to talk, just ask...I'm human! :D x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Thanks. Well i thought i was fixing things and doing well but everything has just gone wrong. To top everything off i just failed my AS Levels. Great.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Don't worry..only you know if you're doing well, and if you think you are then you must be...:) nowadays, AS levels aren't everything and you'll be able to find work (and happiness) with no qualifications. Keep doing what you're doing and be brave :) you'll fix it x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I need my A Levels for the job i want though so i have to pass them properly. Thanks anyway, i'll think about things.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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How is everything going? I hope you're feeling better now :) x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Hi, no i'm sorry to say i'm not i feel a million times worse.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Is there anything I can do to help? Xx
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I don't think so, not this time. I think i need to work out how i can help myself to be fair, i'm just not sure how...x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Helping yourself is the best way out :) start with small goals and work your way up...I promise, it'll all turn out ok. If you ever want to talk, just ask...I'm human! :D x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Thanks. Well i thought i was fixing things and doing well but everything has just gone wrong. To top everything off i just failed my AS Levels. Great.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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Don't worry..only you know if you're doing well, and if you think you are then you must be...:) nowadays, AS levels aren't everything and you'll be able to find work (and happiness) with no qualifications. Keep doing what you're doing and be brave :) you'll fix it x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago to WantingTheEnd
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I need my A Levels for the job i want though so i have to pass them properly. Thanks anyway, i'll think about things.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thanks (: just lemme know if you ever need anything x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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The only thing scaring you is the unknown...I truly believe that as humans, the unknown is our only threat. The future scares you, but it is up to you what you do with your future. You have to stay strong and don't give up...depression may seem like a bottomless pit, but it just takes a bit of time to overcome. You can't do it alone; you must find some (online or in real life) who will guide you and help you through this...someone you can confide in and trust. Set yourself small goals and work upwards, for example, your first goal could be to not cut for a month, or to keep a 'recovery diary' where you write down your emotions. Believe in yourself and you'll succeed, because there's only you that knows what you feel like. When you're depressed, the simplest things can become difficult, so by starting with small tasks, you can soon work your way up to becoming happy again. Just don't be scared. Replace your fear with anticipation and hope for your brighter future, and the feeling of happiness and pride you'll have when you know it was yourself that achieved it. You can do it. Trust me. I believe in you. Xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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self harm doesnt make you deppressed
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Then tell them about your back...do you think it's the right thing to do? I know it must be so hard for you particularly because you're depressed enough to cut...but perhaps looking for help could be the answer? I really do hope it goes to plan, and you must let me know if it works out or if you want advice on depression :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i'm scared
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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The only thing scaring you is the unknown...I truly believe that as humans, the unknown is our only threat. The future scares you, but it is up to you what you do with your future. You have to stay strong and don't give up...depression may seem like a bottomless pit, but it just takes a bit of time to overcome. You can't do it alone; you must find some (online or in real life) who will guide you and help you through this...someone you can confide in and trust. Set yourself small goals and work upwards, for example, your first goal could be to not cut for a month, or to keep a 'recovery diary' where you write down your emotions. Believe in yourself and you'll succeed, because there's only you that knows what you feel like. When you're depressed, the simplest things can become difficult, so by starting with small tasks, you can soon work your way up to becoming happy again. Just don't be scared. Replace your fear with anticipation and hope for your brighter future, and the feeling of happiness and pride you'll have when you know it was yourself that achieved it. You can do it. Trust me. I believe in you. Xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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self harm doesnt make you deppressed
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Then you'll have to tell them...they might be able to help you. I understand it will be hard, but it's the only other thing you can do. If you lie to them and tell them you fell, or something like that, they'll probably not believe you, and if they ever did find out, they'd be even angrier that you'd lied. Althernatively, you could wear a wetsuit, but I doubt that would happen...? If you do tell them, pick your moment carefully and tell them not only about the cuts, but the reason why you're depressed and ask if they can help you out. They'll be less mad if you ask them for help, trust me... I hope everything works out :) x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i feel like i can't tell them. i would have to tell them other things if i did. i cant tell anyone the truth about that. i just want them to think that my back got screwed up from horseback riding...not what really happened. i cant fell them the pain iv gone through...they wouldn't get it. i just cant
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Then tell them about your back...do you think it's the right thing to do? I know it must be so hard for you particularly because you're depressed enough to cut...but perhaps looking for help could be the answer? I really do hope it goes to plan, and you must let me know if it works out or if you want advice on depression :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i'm scared
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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The only thing scaring you is the unknown...I truly believe that as humans, the unknown is our only threat. The future scares you, but it is up to you what you do with your future. You have to stay strong and don't give up...depression may seem like a bottomless pit, but it just takes a bit of time to overcome. You can't do it alone; you must find some (online or in real life) who will guide you and help you through this...someone you can confide in and trust. Set yourself small goals and work upwards, for example, your first goal could be to not cut for a month, or to keep a 'recovery diary' where you write down your emotions. Believe in yourself and you'll succeed, because there's only you that knows what you feel like. When you're depressed, the simplest things can become difficult, so by starting with small tasks, you can soon work your way up to becoming happy again. Just don't be scared. Replace your fear with anticipation and hope for your brighter future, and the feeling of happiness and pride you'll have when you know it was yourself that achieved it. You can do it. Trust me. I believe in you. Xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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self harm doesnt make you deppressed
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Do you want to take swim lessons? If not, perhaps you should tell them you'd rather not go, and that could you do something else, and hopefully, they'll listen and you'll not have to go. Although it may be hard, you could try facing up to them and tell them about the cuts. Hopefully, they'll be happy to let you do another activity instead of swimming, and you could try telling them how much you don't want to go...? I hope it all goes well, and try not to cut... :) x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i cant get out of the lessons.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Then you'll have to tell them...they might be able to help you. I understand it will be hard, but it's the only other thing you can do. If you lie to them and tell them you fell, or something like that, they'll probably not believe you, and if they ever did find out, they'd be even angrier that you'd lied. Althernatively, you could wear a wetsuit, but I doubt that would happen...? If you do tell them, pick your moment carefully and tell them not only about the cuts, but the reason why you're depressed and ask if they can help you out. They'll be less mad if you ask them for help, trust me... I hope everything works out :) x
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i feel like i can't tell them. i would have to tell them other things if i did. i cant tell anyone the truth about that. i just want them to think that my back got screwed up from horseback riding...not what really happened. i cant fell them the pain iv gone through...they wouldn't get it. i just cant
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Then tell them about your back...do you think it's the right thing to do? I know it must be so hard for you particularly because you're depressed enough to cut...but perhaps looking for help could be the answer? I really do hope it goes to plan, and you must let me know if it works out or if you want advice on depression :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i'm scared
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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The only thing scaring you is the unknown...I truly believe that as humans, the unknown is our only threat. The future scares you, but it is up to you what you do with your future. You have to stay strong and don't give up...depression may seem like a bottomless pit, but it just takes a bit of time to overcome. You can't do it alone; you must find some (online or in real life) who will guide you and help you through this...someone you can confide in and trust. Set yourself small goals and work upwards, for example, your first goal could be to not cut for a month, or to keep a 'recovery diary' where you write down your emotions. Believe in yourself and you'll succeed, because there's only you that knows what you feel like. When you're depressed, the simplest things can become difficult, so by starting with small tasks, you can soon work your way up to becoming happy again. Just don't be scared. Replace your fear with anticipation and hope for your brighter future, and the feeling of happiness and pride you'll have when you know it was yourself that achieved it. You can do it. Trust me. I believe in you. Xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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self harm doesnt make you deppressed
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Self harm is a sign or depression or mental issues, and I understand that it may not be depression causing you to cut,'but there must be a reason why you do...? I want to help you, and if you identify the cause, maybe I can help you solve it... I know people self harm because physical pain takes away mental pain. There are many reasons why people cut, and many ways to stop, but you've got to get to the root of the problem first :) xxxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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i know, thanks
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Just remember you can ask me anything...be it about school, home, friends etc. I'll try to help you out :) xxx
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MyTruth 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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ok i will
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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That's ok :) if you have any problems, just ask whenever you need to x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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It's ok! If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to talk to me :) x
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josie* 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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Thankss<3
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago to ProblemSolved
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I can imagine you miss her very much :( looking at the photo book is a lovely way to remember her; little reminders of your times together will constantly make you think of her. Maybe you could put little things around your room to remind you of her, for example, presents she bought you, or photographs? It must be so difficult to lose someone close to you, and its good to know you remember the good memories and talking to your other friends is the best thing you can do; this way, you can relive the memories together. She'd want you to remember her like this, but I'm sure you'd never forget her, no matter what. Hopefully, your lonely feeling will soon go; she'd probably not want you to feel like this...other people will be able to help, but just be strong :) xxxxx
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