ProblemSolved

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Hello Wittians!

This is ProblemSolved :)


This profile is somewhere you can post your problems and questions and recieve helpful solutions from me whenever you like...
Don't worry, I'll try my best to answer them all as soon as I can :D

xxx


P.S.

Some people ask me if I'm a teenager.
Yes, I am, and I've been through a lot, so don't be afraid to ask me anything at all, whether it's about school, friends, crushes, or homework, I'll give you the best advice I can


  

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enginesGoBOOM* 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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Sometimes I just feel the need to lie. Like I don't understand. Even if I wouldn't get in trouble for not doing something, I still tell everyone I've done it. I just can't help it. But then after that I feel like such a bad person. And I don't know what to do anymore. Its like I lie for everything, and I know that isn't good, but I always feel so scared about saying the wrong thing. What do I do? Please help?
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IJustNeedLovee 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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I feel like me and my best friend are drifting apart. I've told her that I feel like this and she basically threw it back in my face and pretty much told me it was all my fault. Then we had a fight but we resolved it. I don't want to lose her but at the moment she only talks to me at school or if she needs help with homework. She thinks that my crush is all I can talk about and she's being really snappy with me. I have no idea what to do, please help?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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Hey:) this is one of the worst kinds of problem to have, especially because you're best friends and have probably relied on each other a lot in the past. It could just be a phase you're going through, and maybe having a short time apart could make your friendship even stronger in the long run when she realises how much she's missed you? Or, you could talk to her again, either in real life or over the internet, and tell her exactly how you're feeling and how much she means to you as a friend. You could also try asking her why she's distancing herself, and maybe try and work on your differences? For example, if she said that she doesn't like you talking about your crush, tell her that you only talk about him with her because you trust her. Make her feel special, and she's bound to want to be your friend again. If that doesn't work, remember what made you best friends in the first place and try to re-create that..? I hope everything goes really well for you, and that you become friends again soon:) x
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IJustNeedLovee 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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Thank you so much for your advice! I'll try your suggestions. You're literally a life saver, I cant thank you enough!
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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You're welcome:) just ask if you ever have any more problems!
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Minecraft_steve 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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I am falling for one of my best friends. She is dating a guy from another state and i see her all the time cuz her locker is right next to mine. She once told me if she wasnt with him she would be with me... How doninamke her mine?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6928827
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Hey:) it's really hard to tell someone you like them when they're with someone else, and it's hard to accept them being in another relationship if you want to date them. It's great that she's one of your best friends because it means you must know a lot about each other and feel comfortable around each other, right? So, all you can do at this stage is talk to her. Maybe you should try asking her how things are with the other guy, or maybe ask her if she'd like to meet up sometime, then you can ask her whether she still feels like she'd be with you if it wasn't for him..? Hint that you still like her and then its up to her to decide what to do next. Remember, if she was completely happy with this other guy, she wouldn't have thought about dating you and she wouldn't have said that she'd be with you if it wasn't for him. I think you've got a good chance, but don't let your heart rule your head and make sure that you think about the consequences of what you say to her, because you don't want to force her to like you back. I hope everything goes well for you! :)
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phee* 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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I'm having troubles eating, and my GP thinks it might just be a medical disorder but I've been getting kinda worried and took some 'eatind disorder tests' that don't save any information and got 'anorexic' for every. single. one. Please help ?? :)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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Did your gp mention anything about a particular diet or any kind of help? On the Internet, there are lots of websites with ideal diets on them that can help you become the perfect weight...maybe trying one of these could help? If not, perhaps find someone to talk to (perhaps here on Witty?) who can motivate you to help you. Anorexia is a horrible mental condition which can be fatal in the worst cases, and if diet plans don't help, then maybe seeing a councillor could help? Remember, no one is going to think any less of you if you ask for help, and I'm sure you'll be able to gain weight soon. You could always go back to your gp with these test results and tell them what you think...I'm sure they'll be able to point you in the right direction :) be strong, and help will come xxx
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phee* 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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Thank you so much!! :)<3
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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It's OK...just remember I'm always here if you need any help, you can ask me anything :) x
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TheArtOfEmotion 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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Why am I so awesome? ;]
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6681637
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Because you're a wittian :) x
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luvmeplz 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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How do you get over a guy? Like my crush asked a friend of mine out. I can't even look at him...how do I get over him?!
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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It's really difficult when your crush dates someone that's close to you, but maybe you could tell your friend how you feel...? I've said it to people before, but it's ok to fancy someone with a girlfriend as long as you don't show it too much...! Maybe if they're going out, you'll have more of a chance of talking to him, then if they ever do split up, he may need you....? Just try not to show you're upset, but if you do tell your friend, she may understand! Good luck :) x
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_Kimi_ 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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I'm kind of not the same person who I am anymore. I felll into depression even though there was nothing really that triggered it. I wish I was skinny, so I started to eat tinier portions. Do you have any advice?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Do not change yourself at all! I'm sure you are perfect just the way you are! There is usually a reason why you are depressed, and it's sometimes just a matter of finding what or who it is, and solving the problems it/they are causing. So, for example, if it is schoolwork, talk to teachers and parents in order to make it easier. Although lots of people may have told you to do this, try talking to someone. Not necessarily an adult, but maybe someone who is in the same situation as you...? Social networking sites (like witty) are great for that. You could also try putting your feelings into words...maybe songs or a diary? Many authors and songwriters start out by using their own experiences. Just try to be brave...hold your head up high and try not to let people bother you. Clear your mind of all stress, and remember, no matter how depressed you are feeling, there is bound to be something good on the horizon. Please let me know how you're feeling, and just ask if I can help you any more :) x
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_Kimi_ 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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thanks. x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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It's ok :) I hope it was helpful! Oh, and I'm loving the profile picture (beautiful creatures is one of my favourite films!) :) x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Kinda think i'm spiralling out of control, feeling like i'm falling into a deep depression and I don't know what to do, sometimes I wish I could be put on meds to make me happy you know?
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Do not give up on yourself!! You must be strong! Ok, there are a few things you can do to help yourself: 1) read books - by reading, you can lose yourself in another world and it'll take your mind off things (find a book you can relate to) 2) talk to someone - I know everyone has probably told you to talk to someone, but it can help, once you've found the right person...perhaps someone here on witty? 3) write a diary/book - expressing your feelings with words usually works (if its good, get it published) Just try...I'm sure you will feel better soon. One of my close friends was in the same situation as you, but found that talking to people and writing down how she felt helped...I do understand how you feel, but don't feel like meds are the only solution :) I hope this has helped, and you must let me know how it goes :) x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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i've tried talking and writing, i'm still working on it though. Ugh one more thing....my best friend has just told me she loves me and has since she first met me, the only thing though is that i'm not bi or a lesbian so i can't date her, i feel so awful for saying no though because she's having a really hard time and i know she relies on me a lot and i wouldn't forgive myself if me saying no to dating her would end her life. I've even been debating on whether to just say yes and go along with it to make her happy, it kills me to see her sad, she's started cutting and taking pills and i can't lose her because i do really love her. but at the same time if i'm messed up and she's messed up we'll either make each other a lot worse which could be fatal or help each other fight through the rest of the days. I'M SO CONFUSED AND FEEL GUILTY AS F/CK.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Don't go along with it just to make her happy...if she finds out then it will hurt her even more, and you wouldn't want that. Try and get her off pills and get her to stop cutting (only you can do that) maybe you could find her someone else...? Please don't feel guilty because you haven't done anything wrong...you can't help how you feel and you can't change that...you can both support each other to make it through and you'd be lost without each other. Tell her how awful you feel for saying no and that you do really want to help her :) x
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WantingTheEnd 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Okay thanks, i'll let you know how it goes.x
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Thank you...please try to be strong and good luck! :D x
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Ce'ce* 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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What do I if my boyfriend spent $300 on a neaklace, some chocolates & a bear for Valentines day & everyone is make you feel bad about it cause you only gave him a bear. We've only gone out for 3 months. Everyone's saying that i owe him $300 & that im just going out with him for the money cause his family's "rich"
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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I guess everyone's just really jealous of you...make sure you let everyone know you're not just dating him for his money and that you do really care about him. Remember, love isn't about material things like necklaces and bears, and everyone else needs to know that. Try not to let them get to you and tell them that you honestly didn't know how much money he had or how much he was going to spend on you. It's early days in your relationship, and I'm sure that soon, everyone will realise that you aren't just going out with him because he's rich. Maybe you could talk to him about it too? Maybe ask him what he'd say in this situation or get him to talk to people...? Hope this was helpful and that everyone willl understand your relationship soon :) x
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chocomickey14 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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My crush is a skater boy he doesnt talk to me very often and theres this boy that talks to me all the time and asks me how im doing and hes nice hes such a sweetheart but i think he has a girlfriend im trying so hard not to like him
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Don't listen to what most people say, boys do have feelings and if they do like a girl they'll do everything they can to get her...this boy sounds like he does like you lots, but you have try and figure out if he likes you as a friend or more than a friend... Same applies to your crush...if he likes you he'll let you know. Perhaps you could try talking to you crush one day...maybe find out when he goes skating? Oh, and if your friend does have a girlfriend, you're still allowed to like him, just try not to show it :D hope it all works out :) x
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chocomickey14 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Thanks that was awesome he nots really my friend tho althl he i sorry im awkrar
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Happy to help :D x
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[deleted] 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Okay! I probs will coz I always have problems lol!
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[deleted] 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Thanks yeah! I think I'll do tht! ×××
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Ok...any other problems, just ask! X
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[deleted] 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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There's this girl at my skl in ma class ethos soo unpopular! And I felt sorry for her soo I started being nice to her but now she like stalks me I know tht sounds mean but I don't want 2 b her partner for everything coz overtime she grabs ma arm and she's making me unpopular coz all my other friends don't wanna hang out with meh if she's there! But I don't wanna b mean I tried to ignore her a bit so she gets the message but I feel sorry for her and I don't know wot to do?:L I'll follow u btw! :)
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Ok thank you :) I know a lot of clingy people like the girl in your class...I understand that it's hard when you see her alone, and I think it's really kind of you to go and talk to her :) she'll appreciate that (maybe a little too much!) Tell her kindly that you just need a little space, maybe plan so that you hang out with your friends one say then her the next...? She feels insecure...by talking to her, she's beginning to trust you and I know it must be hard (especially if she's 'stalking' you!) perhaps you should try and find her another friend if you feel sorry for her? Like matchmaking, but with friends :D talk to your friends about it as well, maybe ask them what they'd do...? Hope everything goes well and this is helpful :D x
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that_blond 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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Can you help? So this guy i know and talk to sometimes asked me out yesterday, but at threw me off guard is what he said- he said,"I like you too" so it had completely thrown me off and im just too nice so of course i said "sure" and so technically now we're going out. i dont know why he thought i like him, when i dont WHATSOEVER. i do not at all want to go out with him, but i dont want to be a jerk. what do i do? and i apologize about my typing, right now im on my ipod.
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ProblemSolved 1 decade ago on quote #6632394
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I'd give it a short while...perhaps meet up with him once? That way you'll be able to know for sure that you don't like him, before its too late. Then, if you are sure you don't like him, tell him kindly. For example, tell him you've had fun, but you thought it was much nicer when you were just friends...alternatively, you could text/message him and let him know you'd rather just be friends. I'm sure hel'll not think you're being a jerk, if you just find a kind way of telling him :) x
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