I had something similar happen too =/ Its not fun </3 and less than two weeks later he was dating one of my best friends. Less than one month later, he tells her he loves her. Glad to know I meant so much, huh? ):
I think you look beautiful either way, but if you want contacts, then definitley get them. I love my contacts and theyre nice for summer especially when youre swimming and stuff (:
I agree with MEKdancer as well. Don't lead him on. If you aren't ready for a relationship right now, then that's fine. Just tell him that. He should understand. If not, he's a jerk anyways!
It's a tough situation, and I know the feeling, but you need to tell him that it's not right to do that to your friend, because if she knew, she'd be really hurt. If he really wants you, he will end if with her and go for you. Don't do anything rash. It will all work out how its supposed to in the end (:
Thanks guys, but Tom just told me his feelings for me keep changing, and this is part of the reason why I'm doubting him. I don't wanna get my hopes up. =/ But Tom is the one I can see myself being really happy with.
Laureennnn!!!! I found you on Witty! Yeah, I'm a creep. Haha no, just kidding. I was looking through the quotes and saw this quote and I was like, "hmm thats something Lauren would say" So I creeped and its you!!!! I love youuuu <333
Given the situation, I say be with him and be happy. (: I just had a similar situation happen to me, except it was with my boyfriend of 7 months. Now the girl and him are dating, after I specifically asked her not to. Your friend "Sydney" is not a true friend, and you don't need her. All she's gonna do is make you feel guilty whenever she was the one who hurt you in the first place. I say just go for it. (: Be happy.
I know that neither of you know me or anything, but please send my condolances. My dad passed away when I was 12 from cancer, so I know her pain. <3 She will get through it tho. Just be strong.