You know what? You don't need any of those things, You look the way you are for a reason, you're your own person, and you shouldn't change, nor try to look like other people, And everyone is worth something to someone, It might just take a while to find that someone, and you're surely wanted and needed by never people, Don't put your self down because of the society we live in today, You're beautiful just how you are, and you'll find someone who would actually prove it to you, Trust,
I actually don't mind on the appearance, It's like pathetic dating someone just because of their looks, I go for personality looks are just looks to me.
http://www.eatingdisorderexpert.co.uk/EatingDisordersAndTheSocialSigns.html
http://www.something-fishy.org/isf/signssymptoms.php
The second one looks more helpful, Sorry I didn't read the pages, I just scanned through them:)
But i still have skype @TiimJamess