at this age it's not about . hes taking control of you and making you do what he wants. if he truly loved you, he would understand if you wanted to wait. Don't feel obligated to do something you don't want to!! hope this helped!(:
Hii, It sounds to me like hes pressuring you, sort of black mailing you. You're only 14 and going to have lots of bfs. If you're not ready DON'T do it. Pleaase. <33
How long have you two been together?