i promise, if you just surround yourself with the right
people, life will be easy. those who will crack corny jokes with
you and treat you right are your real friends & it is
important to know that it is okay to only have a few of these
people around, and it’s also okay to have lots;
whatever suits you. Do not let other peoples’ opinions or
even other friend group sizes discourage you; if what
you’ve got works for you, you’re doing great. Having
supportive friends means you can discard the constant worrying
about looking perfect and acting a certain way in front of
certain people; you can finally be happy. Chances are, if the
people you choose to spend time with don’t make you feel
good, you’re not happy. & you may not always realize it
since you’re so adapt, but there is no way in he/ll you are
ever enjoying yourself while faking or hiding your own
personality for the sake of being more “likable” to
others. & this isn’t healthy, or worth it at all for
that matter… because living is supposed to be enjoyable.
So if you’re going to take anything beneficial away from
reading this, take this advice: stop making life more difficult
for yourself than it needs to be. Blatantly, all our heartache
and drama is self-induced. It may be hard to understand while
you’re in the fragile state of heartbreak, but trust me on
this…you cannot blame those who have hurt you for the fact
that you are feeling so broken. Yes, it will be difficult, but
you have to pick yourself back up. You cannot
rely on others to help you. & please, do not think I say this
because they won't, I’m sure there are some amazing
people who will be there for you and willing to do all they can.
But the harsh truth is that everyone has their own lives. And
although you may see your problems as bigger, everyone has their
own inner-struggle to handle too. The only way to ensure that you
won’t fall back into your depression while no one is there
to catch you is to bring yourself back to the bright,
shining person you remember, all on your own. Take control of
your own feelings; take control of your own life. That’s
when you can be proud, that’s when you can finally say,
“I made it.” So start today, I dare you. Try living
drama-free. Live life simply, and life will be simple back to
you.