"You're
fat."
That's
fine. I know I'm bigger than a girl my age should be,
and it's hardly like I try to hide it or anything.
You haven't hurt me; all you've done is shown me that
you can state the obvious. Because it's not really
that offensive to me - I've always been chubby. I was a
chubby child, so why is it so shocking that I grew up
to be a chubby teenager? Don't misunderstand; I think
you're a rude asshat and my respect for you just
plummeted. However, I myself am okay. I can
lose the weight if I want to - I can go running, I can
do push-ups every night, I can monitor what I eat so I
don't eat more than I need to. I can manage all that
just fine, if I want to. And it's fine if
you see me checking the calory count on something and label me
with an eating disorder, because I know I don't
have one. If my weight affects my health, or if I
can't stand it, guess what? I will change it
myself. Your input, advice and observations are neither
needed nor wanted. Now, instead of worrying about me
and how I look, why don't you put more effort into
being the person you want to be and leave me
alone? I'm happy with being
'fat'.