i've been there girl. you can get out if you want to. he can't control you. you have every control over yourself. you can't stay in a relationship like this. why? because one day he'll take it too far. i was in that relationship. i was and got pregnant. sadly, i lost the baby...and the guy but i'm now with someone better. you have all the control over yourself. find me on facebook if you ever need to talk: Candace Buday
hey girl.
i'm adopted too. i found out when i was 14 and i cried for literally weeks wondering why my parents didn't tell me sooner and why my birth parents gave me up. My parents now told me the reason they waited was so i actually knew what they were saying, not that they were lying to me. if they would have told you at a younger age, you might not have understood, but now you completely know what's going on. Don't think that your birth parents didn't want you either because chances are, when your birth mom found out she was pregnant with you, she was prolly really happy, but the circumstances she lives in, family issues, drugs and alcoholism is prolly why she did it so she was only giving you a better life and better family. You may think that your parents now were lying to you, but they were only trying to protect you. It's not an easy concept to grasp, to this day I still think about it and I'm 16. If you were adopted into the good family, like i'm sure you are, then don't worry. If you're in my case where people in your family talk about it all the time, well....i'm really sorry because that's what I go through. But listen, keep your head up. You have two paretns who love and adore you. Being adopted isn't a bad thing. They could have saved you. My dad saved me. If you ever need to talk, comment on my page or add me on facebook: Candace Buday. :)
I got mine done in november. It didn't hurt at all when i got it done but after it was sore. Just make sure you clean it right and move it around and you'll be fine :)
Don't do it! If it's over drama, a boy, or friends...it's not worth losing your life. That won't solve anything. You're doing it for a temporary problem. You've got all us witty girls who care for you. If you need to talk, let me know. I've gone through this too. You're not alone. Stay Strong Beautiful <3
Hey girl, I know this quote is kinda old but I just happened to stumble upon it and I wanna let you know I'm 17 now but when I was 13-16 I was just like you. Literally. Drinking, smoking, having with random guys. I ended up getting pregnant at 15 and I now have a two year old boy name Paul Anthony. He's my world. Besides the point, after I got pregnant I realized that what I've been doing needed to stop. While I was pregnant I stopped drinking and smoking. When he was born, i went right back to smoking. Paul's father, my fiance' today helped me get through it and now I'm clean and I have been for a little over a year now. I'm not saying that you have to get pregnant to change, but just please learn alittle from this. If you don't start changing and getting outta your bad habits, this can happen to you. I'm always here if you needa talk (:
By the fire (:
i'm adopted too. i found out when i was 14 and i cried for literally weeks wondering why my parents didn't tell me sooner and why my birth parents gave me up. My parents now told me the reason they waited was so i actually knew what they were saying, not that they were lying to me. if they would have told you at a younger age, you might not have understood, but now you completely know what's going on. Don't think that your birth parents didn't want you either because chances are, when your birth mom found out she was pregnant with you, she was prolly really happy, but the circumstances she lives in, family issues, drugs and alcoholism is prolly why she did it so she was only giving you a better life and better family. You may think that your parents now were lying to you, but they were only trying to protect you. It's not an easy concept to grasp, to this day I still think about it and I'm 16. If you were adopted into the good family, like i'm sure you are, then don't worry. If you're in my case where people in your family talk about it all the time, well....i'm really sorry because that's what I go through. But listen, keep your head up. You have two paretns who love and adore you. Being adopted isn't a bad thing. They could have saved you. My dad saved me. If you ever need to talk, comment on my page or add me on facebook: Candace Buday. :)
Jan. 16th :)