watch movies, go on omegle, gossip, do blind makeovers,ect. you dont want to seem to planned, or else you may come off as weird (if these are new friends). just be calm and play everything by a year. be open for change.
i honestly wouldnt say anything. if you guys start to become friends, he shouldnt care about what happened in the past. and if he does care, tell him what people said about what he was saying and explain that was the reason why.
this is a site where you can post how you feel and rant. not always does it have to revolve around you. there are a million other people who use witty. if you dont like her than dont follow her but there is no need to hate on her. honestly. and i understand your jelous because shes pretty, but don't compare her to someone else. yes, she may resemble ariana but shes different in her own way. like you need to keep to yourselfs, and start to care about other people.
this happens a lot because people sometimes don't want their close friends to think badly of them. i am not saying what she did is right, because my friends have done it to me in the past. And also another thing to think about was that maybe she was waiting for the perfect time to tell you, not when there were other people around. I don't know exactly what she did, but maybe she wanted to tell you... just not like that. I wouldn't NOT trust her, I would if i were you let her know how it made you feel when you relized that you weren't one of the first people she told. But really I don't think it was intentional. And my friends have donethis a couple of times, and I usually hear it from someone else, but then like a few days later my friends usually end up telling (at the right time).
she's done stuff likie this to me before and it happened at the beginning of july so i'm thinking that if she was going to tell me she would've told me before now and i'm still gonna trust her and she knows i would never judge her. she told me that our other friend meg and i were her best firends and it's always been that way and she told meg but not me, which happens alot and we talked about it already and she feels bad and is going to try and be better but who knows because like i said , not the first time she's left me out ( i usually find things out from meg)
you did the right thing because he would have been even more hurt if you led him on the whole time. its better that as soon that you relized you didnt like him you told him. it shows that you are a good person, because most people in our society today would just play along (which causes people to get really hurt).