This is really odd and sort of awkward but I need to vent this,
please don't hate me for it.
I've always been unsure about my life, my sexuality and my
relationships. Throughout my life, i was tormented by jerks
about my height (I'm nearly 6 ft) and my weight (I've been
overweight for a long time), as well as my voice (i have a deepish
voice), they used to ask me why I had such a man's voice and
why i couldn't be more of a girl. I also had my brothers
picking fights with me, at least once a week i would get an arm
full of bruises or worse. I've always felt rejected by
everyone around me, they all have their own little group and i just
don't belong, I've been an outcast almost where ever i go
for most of my life. I have a man's build, a man's
height and a mans strength, and yet i also have a womans figure and
voice even if it is deepish. Because I've always
been seen as someone not to mess with but also an easy target,
I've always been so self conscious about how i look
because i don't want to give them more ammo to fire on me.
So many times, especially online, i have been confused with a
guy instead of a girl and this is really odd and i don't
understand it, but i always take a man's role in situations, or
what would be expected of a guy to do, and in doing that, i imagine
myself as a guy even though i know I'm a girl, and no i
don't mean I'm in love with a girl or anything, i just mean
that i feel too masculine and yet I'm a girl and although
I'm not nearly a girly girl, I'm still emotionally
sensitive, protective of friends, everyone i know, knows that if
they dare hurt my friends or someone i care about, they'll be
in a world of hurt when i get to them, but when i was little, i
used to watch shows like dragon ball z and Pokemon and i still
watch shows like Buffy and Angel, and in my life I've always
felt like I'm meant to do something more in my life, that
I'm meant for something, now a days I've been feeling like
my life is just a joke, that I'm no better than a rock in the
dirt sort of thing, i have chronic fatigue syndrome, i have low
blood pressure, i may even have fibromyalgia and i don't
know what else, i have so many disorders and yet somehow I'm
meant to make a difference in this world, i worked through my life
becoming stronger so that i could one day face my brothers and not
be scared, I've never been scared of them and i don't
intend to be any time soon, my strength is the only character of me
that I'm actually accredited for, its the only thing i can
think of that makes me, me, the fact that in a fight, i have never
lost, nor will i ever fall when its a loved one's life at
stake, thats it, thats all I'm known for, not even the second
half of that, all I'm known for is that I'm stronger
than alot of guys and that i can fight, it may be nice to know that
they realise not to try anything, but it also makes me feel lesser
than who i am. Family relatives tell me that i should be a
model and that there must be guys lining up at my door to ask me
out, no, the only functional relationship I've had was when i
was 8 and that was barely real, other than that the only boyfriend
I've had isn't even worth talking about, guys in my
year, are afraid of me, they are intimidated because they believe
that a girl needs protection, not all of them are like this, but
most of them are. I have been stumbling through life, the
only time where i have felt that i belong is outside of school, at
work experience, it was the first time that i felt accepted without
having to prove myself. For pretty much all of my life, all
I've wanted was to be normal, my friends always say that they
wish they were my height, but if they were, they would then know
why i wish i was theirs. I'm not going to write anymore
or other wise this will go on forever.
Sorry it's so long.
I doubt anyone would care to but thanks if you actually read it..