I was in a car
accident once. I was cruising out everything was going well
then... BAM!! I was
blindsided, and the car was totaled. I never saw it coming.
Another time I remember beginning to lose control the initial
frantic attempt to keep the car on the road despite the ice. Time
seemed to slow down as I watched the embankment coming ever
closer. Powerless, I was completely powerless to stop it.
Finally, I flew off the air went airborne for a few seconds
before crashing down. That's just like relationships some end
suddenly blindsiding you, and others you see the end coming but
are powerless to stop it. I don't know which is