exactly the first one, and start talkin to those nice people a little bit more, dont expect to get in their group but you can still talk to them, maybe after a few weeks start talkin to your true best friend if the opportunity comes, if shes your true best friend then she wont care if youre popular or not, and over all just start feelin good about yourself, im sure there is a boy out there that likes you but is just afraid to tell you