i have been played too so u really can't let it get to u that bad just think of ur friends and think that it has happened to other people and they have gotten thru it...so can u
I'm not telling you to let go, i'm telling you to forget the past. Just take him to one side and talk to him, honestly, what's the point of being hung up over a guy who doesn't even like you back? you need an answer from him. that's all the advice i can give you right now, but i wish you all the best x
I know this is probably the last thing you want to hear right now, but I actually do know what you're going though. It's hard to forget about the past, how something could of changed, but you've honestly got to let go of the past. That's something I had to learn too. What's the point of getting hung up over something that you can't change? you have to forget about it. If you need an answer, go up to him, get him to give you an answer. Maybe if you know how he's feeling it'll make the whole situation easier x
He might have liked you, and now maybe doesn't like you in that way as much. Maybe he's distancing himself to kind of let you know that he doesn't have a crush in you any more. I suggest trying to talk to him, have some light-hearted banter and maybe forget the whole situation and start again.
I've had the same sort of problem, to lad i fancied asked me out - we went out - then he never mentioned the date to me again. We still talk and we're friends, but that's all i think that we'll ever be, although i wish we could be more.
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first off thank you! okay so i dated this kid paul like 4 years ago and he was my first real boyfriend and i can honestly say i loved him but it ended badly and i was very hurt when it did and i still dont know if im over it. and i am currently in a "friends with benefits" situation with my friend kevin. we both have feelings for each other and we used to go out but right now he doesnt want a relationship and i have no clue what i want. either way we arent exclusive but we usually dont hook up with other people. so last night i was at a party and all of the sudden paul came up and started talking to me and we danced for a while and then went outside to talk more but i knew he was trying to hook up with me and i was so stunned from actually talking to him that i said i couldnt and walked away. and then my friend kyle started yelling at him to get away because he thought he did something to me. idk how im feeling now its so confusing because all of those feelings just came rushing back. and then later in the night i was hanging out with kevin and everything just comes to naturally with him idk if im just being used by kevin but i guess im doing the same thing to him. either was any advice, idk if i should try talking to paul or just ignore that the situation even happened. and idk why he would do that in the first place i mean we DO NOT talk at all!
I've had the same sort of problem, to lad i fancied asked me out - we went out - then he never mentioned the date to me again. We still talk and we're friends, but that's all i think that we'll ever be, although i wish we could be more.
Anyways, I hope that helped! Good Luck, lovely x
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