i think its everyones own choice whether they have or go to third/second base, and we shouldn't judge people that do. a is someone who has for money, and is someone who would have with anyone. so yeah, just because someone has with people doesn't make them either of that. i guess the one night stands and buddies are a little rediculous for 8th graders, but still. having isn't a big deal, as long as your emotionally ready for it, and you'd be suprised at how many people are. so yeah. let people live. bye.