No? She's only 10, I got mine pierced when I was 14 but I ended up taking it out. I didn't find it worth it. But 10? I think that's young to get a cartilage pierced..
My sister has hearing aids! You are the way you are for a reason, so embrace it hun.<3 Please don't ever try to harm yourself again. You're here for a reason. A lot of people care about you. I don't know you and I care. If you ever need to talk I'm here for you!
I love you girly! You're beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Don't listen to the ones who drag you down and listen to the people who really do matter in your life. You go girl! And don't hold back from anything, you only live once, if you hold back, you'll regret it like I regret holding back on stuff.
There's this color I have that I'm absolutely in love with. It's called Caribbean Coral. I happen to think it's a perfect color for the beach. It looks like: http://dailyvarnish.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/sally-hansen-xtreme-wear-caribbean-coral-matte.jpg. It's an orangy pinkish color. I dunno when I think beach I think of bright colors like that.
I've felt that way many times. But please don't. I know how it feels and I don't want others to ever feel the same pain. You're on this Earth for a reason. Forget the haters. Focus on the people who love you. They're way more important.