"You're
fat."
That's
fine. I know I'm bigger than a girl my age should be,
and it's hardly like I try to hide it or anything.
You haven't hurt me; all you've done is shown me that you
can state the obvious. Because it's not really that
offensive to me - I've always been chubby. I was a chubby
child, so why is it so shocking that I grew up to be a
chubby teenager? Don't misunderstand; I think you're a
rude asshat and my respect for you just
plummeted. However, I myself am okay. I can
lose the weight if I want to - I can go running, I can
do push-ups every night, I can monitor what I eat so I don't
eat more than I need to. I can manage all that just
fine, if I want to. And it's fine if you see me
checking the calory count on something and label me with an
eating disorder, because I know I don't have one. If
my weight affects my health, or if I can't stand it,
guess what? I will change it myself. Your input, advice
and observations are neither needed nor wanted. Now, instead of
worrying about me and how I look, why don't
you put more effort into being the person you want to be
and leave me alone? I'm happy with being
'fat'.