i've learned that [n o m a t t e r] how much i care, some people are just assholes. i've learned that it takes years to build up trust, but it only takes suspicion; not proof, to destroy i. i've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others; they're more screwed up than you think. i've learned that people you care most about in l i f e are taken from you t o o s o o n and all the less important ones just never go away.