if you are a boy who
immediately says "not all boys are like that!" when
girls talk about harassment/disrespect/being objectified/being
treated badly/being made to feel unimportant by
men
- you are
disregarding their hurt and fear and shame
- you are trying to make yourself into the victim when you
are not and never will be
- you are treating their issues as unimportant
- you are looking for sympathy you don't need instead of
trying to make the situation better for
them
you have just proved that you
are exactly like
that.