A friend once told me "don't try, just do."
he decided to relapse after over a year. I told him next time he
thinks he's going to he should talk about it.
He said that he would try.
I finally got the chance to show him that the things he says as
advise aren't really that easy to follow by replying with "Don't
try, just do."
He quit saying it after that.
Moral of the story: you must try first. Nothing is as easy as
just being able to do it right the first time.