what you said
was: "I don't respect women who don't
respect themselves."
what you meant was: "I, and society as
a whole, hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards
directly relating to the "purity" of said women while
hyperséxualizing them at the same time and, if you are a
woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria ,then i
refuse to acknowledge your humanity."
what i heard was: "Hi, i'm a
misogynist piece of shît, please punch me in my
face."