1. I adore you. This isn't about seex; this
isn't about desire. This is about how you make me glow
whenever you walk into a room, glad that you just exist,
whether I'm the girl beside you or just someone admiring
you from twenty feet away.
2. You inspire me. I love how
you're living your life, what you're devoting yourself
to, how you're spending your time, what path you've
chosen, how you deal with the people around you.
3. I respect you. You're the first person I
think of when I want a serious opinion on something. Anything.
From topics like "Am I being an b/tch here?" to
"Which is better, Men at Work or Breaking
4. I just love kissing
you. Okay, so, years from now, if by some awful
paragliding accident we both end up paralyzed and have no use
of our lower extremities and can never get it on, I'll
still feel pretty good about it as long as I can just kiss you
as much as I want.
5. I don't want to change you. Yes, there are
some things about you that I don't get. That I don't
love. But you're you. And all the other stuff that comes
with you, I would never want to lose. So I don't want to
disturb the equation. I want to keep it intact. And just help
6. I accept your drama. Sure,
you've got some anger issues with your mom. Or dad. Or
sister. Or job that you're trying to get out of. I can
handle that, even when it's a bit exhausting. I even
support it. None of us is drama-free, me especially. I respect
that you're fighting against something.
7. I've totally got the hots for you. As in:
Seriously, can we get these clothes off already? I'm dying
here. We should really find our way to the nearest bedroom. Or
kitchen. Or rooftop.
8. I love that you tell me off
sometimes. Seriously. I may not always admit it, but I
respect it. I'm full of bullsh/t sometimes, and I like to
know you won't take it. If I'm gonna have someone by my
side, I better know he didn't just fall for the first girl
that came along, and he'll keep holding me to my higher
standards. I don't want a pushover.
9. You're on my mind. Constantly. Especially
when I'm supposed to be thinking about something else. When
I'm at work, giving a presentation, watching a movie with
my girls. There you are, all in the middle of my sh/t, outta
nowhere. And yet, I can't help but smile.
10. You captivate me. You
have my full attention. I'm not thinking about him. Or him.
Or him. Just you. Oh, and that interview I got. But mostly just
11. I forgive you. The other day, you were
completely crazy. Seriously, you went off the deep end about
something. You blamed me for something I didn't do, or
didn't actually say, or didn't actually think. But hey,
you're human, you're allowed a "gimme" now
and then. (As am I.) And look, with all the beauty you bring to
my life, I'm still coming out way ahead.
12. I love you. Sorry to get
all heavy on you, but it's true. While the last girl you
dated for almost two years said it but never really meant it,
I'm telling you now: I love you. You're
wonderful. I want to be more like you. I want others to be more
like you. I want whatever kids we might hypothetically have
together to be like you. You're my idea of a fantastic
person. I want to help you be as "you" as
13. I can't stop talking about you. You're
not some little secret I keep. Or hide. You're my favorite
thing on the planet. I told my best favourite cousin
about you before we even had our first date. I told my best
friends about you immediately after our first date
(didn't wanna jinx it). You're a story I could tell
over and over and over again.
14. I see my future with
you. Sure, I may not say this right away -- I mean
hopefully I won't say this right away, for fear of scaring
you off -- but I'm thinking about it. We girls, we
are planners, we project, we get ahead of ourselves. And
me? I wanna get ahead of myself with you.
15. I just need to hold you. I may not always feel like
kissing. But I just need to be kinda near you. Be next to you.
Be unable to lay away from you on the bed without wrapping
myself around you. I don't even understand it, frankly, but
I do. So accept it, please. It's something that something
inside of me knows I need.
16. Thank you. For existing.
For being you. For having your smile. For having the laugh that
you do. For looking at me when I tell you not to. For laughing
at the things you do. For not laughing at the things you think
are too stupid. For having a point of view and a strong sense
of self. For wearing that hat when I first met you. For having
your standards. For getting pi$$ed off when something matters.
For showing your appreciation when you see beauty. For just
existing. Seriously, I'm just glad the universe made you.
It makes me feel a lot better about the place I live in. But,
barring that, come here please. I need to kiss you now. And for
a while after that.