Before you say yes,
get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him
sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if
he does, get him drunk — you'll learn more about
his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts
you in front of them. You can't change people, baby girl.
If they are made one way, it doesn't just wear off. If
you hate how he acts when he's out of it now, you're
going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You
might love him to bits but it doesn't change that some
people just don't fit.