Quotes added on Sunday, December 7 2014
The
Basics:
Name: Stephanie
Age: 18
Love Life:
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?: no
Do you like someone?: yeas
Does anyone like you?: idk..
Hugged anyone in the past week?: yes
Friendships
Who is your best friend?: Claire, Amanda
Where did you meet them? online
Did you lose any friends this year?: no
Gain any?: yes
Meet a special friend? no
Did you hang out with any friends in the past week? just at
college..
New Years Eve
Did you do anything at midnight? yes
Who did you spend it with? neighbours
any resolutions? no
Valentines
Day
Did you have a Valentine? no
Did you send out any cards/chocolates/etc?: no
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend on this day?: no
Summer
Did you go on vacation?:
no
Did you hang out on the beach with friends?: no
How long was your summer break?: month and couple of weeks
Did you get a tan?: ye
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend during the summer?: no
Halloween
Did you go trick or treating?: no
If so, who did you go with?:
Did you dress up?: no
Was it fun?: eh
Christmas
Who did you spend it with?: family.
Did Santa come to your house?: yeah!
Did you stay up until midnight on Christmas Eve?
proably
Your Birthday
Who did you spend it with?: family.
What did you do?: went out for lunch
What did you get?: jewellary,laptop, photo frame thing
Have You Ever: (Yes or
No)
Hugged someone: ye
Electricuted yourself: no
Climbed more than 60 feet: no
Made a Youtube video: no
Lied to a loved one: y
Had a pet: have
Ran a marathon: hahahaha.. no
Had a boyfriend/girlfriend: no
5
Do’s
1. Do you play any instruments?: did
2. Do you play any sports?: no
3. Do you believe in 2012? ye... no
4. Do you like animals? yea
5. Do you honestly like Obama?: doesnt effect me.
4
If’s
1. If you get $1 Million for breaking up with your
boyfriend/girlfriend, would you? no
2. If you were to get $50,000 for killing a rat, would you?:
yea
3. If you were to choose between your best friend and your
brother/sister, who would you choose? brother, i don't have a
real life best friend
4. If you were to choose between coke/pepsi or sprite/7up, which
would you choose? coke/pepsi
3
How’s
1. How old do you want to be when you get married?: 20's
2. How many siblings do you have?: brother
3. How did your last Christmas go? good
2
When’s
1. When is your birthday?: Aug 18th
2. When was your last relationship? never.
1 What
1. What would you say if the guy/girl you like right now kissed
you? i probaly would be in shock, so i'd say
nothing
1. Name: Stephanie
2. Age: 18
3. Height: 5'3
4. Date of Birth: Aug 18th, 1996
5. Eye Colour: brown
6. Religion: catholic
7. Sexuality: straight
Looks
8. Hair Colour: brown
9. Eye Colour: brown
10. Weight: rather not say
11. Skin Tone: tan..ish..
12. Piercings/Tattoos: ears
13. Jewelry: none right now
14. Build: broad
Personality
15. Funny or Serious? both
16. Hard working or lazy? both
17. Flirty or reserved? reserved
18. What is the first thing people notice about your personality? i'm shy
19. Are you more caring or sympathetic? both
20. Are you sporty, artistic, bookworm or sciency? artistic
Have You Ever
21. Slapped someone in the face? yep
22. Lost touch with a good friend? yep
23. Kissed someone for a dare? nope
24. Drank alcohol? notmuch
25. Broke a bone? no
26. Got chickenpox? had
27. Ate a whole pizza to yourself? no
28. Stepped on a bug? yes
29. Rode a horse? no
30. Been seen naked by someone not your doctor or family member? no
How Many
31. TVs are in your house? 4
32. People have you kissed? 0
33. Chairs are in the room you are in now? 0
34. Best friends do you have? 2
35. PCs or laptops are in your house? PC, 2 laptops
This or That?
36. Summer or Winter?winter
37. Strawberry or Banana? strawberry.
38. Justin Bieber or Taylor Swift? taylor
39. Eminem or Kanye West? eminem
40. Vegetables or Fruits? fruits
41. Books or Movies?both
42. Hugs or Kisses? hugs
43. Rock or Pop? mix
Name The Last Person That...
44. Hugged you? dad
45. Kissed you? no one
46. Thanked you? mum
47. Flirted with you? no one
48. Insulted you? brother proably
49. Made you laugh? dad
50. Made you cry? not sure
Lasts
51. Ate? pear
52. Drank? coke
53. Talked to? brother
54. Word Spoke? "hi''
55. Time cried? not sure
56. Time laughed? an hour again
Firsts
57. Best friend? claire, amanda
58. Crush? sean or steven
59. Boyfriend: never had one
60. dog? never had one
61. Kiss? never had one
62. Took steps? when i was a baby
Random
63. Do you own any brand shirts? no
64. What languages do you know? english
65. Do you like to sing? love
66. Are you competitive? can be
67. What are you afraid of? death
68. Who do you miss? no one tbh
69. Are you a virgin? Yes
70. Do you like photography? Yeah
Do not become small
for people who refuse to grow.
1. The Girl Who Takes Up Too Much Space, always, her shoulders too wide in stairwells, her hips too big in doorways, her voice too loud in classes. This woman does not understand the art of crumbling, of curling herself tight like the spiral of a fern, soft, delicate, unwilling to reach out the ivy of her fingers to grasp onto what should rightfully be hers. This is a beast, an elephant, a moving mountain and she is capable of flattening you, she is capable of ruining you, she is capable of making you feel as small and insignificant in her life as she is supposed to be. You are this woman’s footnote to history, you are her side note in song lyrics, you are constantly interrupted by her with a witty joke you wish you thought of. I asked what the problem was with being a steamroller instead of a sunflower and I was laughed down.
2. The Beautiful One, the long hair or the slim waist or the pretty eyes or the lips like bowstrings. This woman looks good in everything because she’s confident in whatever you put her in. She’ll cut her hair short on you no matter how you like it, she’ll wear high heels and step on your opinions, she’ll look hot as hell no matter what size she is. See, the reason you can’t trust her is because women like this don’t need your permission, they’ll do as they please and get away with it. They’ll say no to you, over and over. Teach your daughters that beautiful means dangerous, teach them to distrust women who love themselves. Equate beautiful with vapid, equate pretty with stupid, take their power from them. Say they’re vain for their makeup, refuse to see them without it. These women are snakes, they are serpents. I said maybe the problem lies with you being unable to control yourself and was told to get off my pedestal.
3. A Bítch. Women are supposed to be ladies in the street but will tear skin under sheets. I’m told: Never raise your voice. Speak gently. Submit. Hold your opinion against your lips and when you admit to it, make sure it comes out as a butterfly wing suggestion. Don’t disagree. Don’t undermine someone else’s authority, regardless of whether or not they deserve your respect. Someone touches you, just move away from them. Don’t hit. Don’t talk back. Be like the ruins of Rome, only beautiful if you can’t hear your quiet death.
4. The Needy One. I have heard how others spit when they talk about how she gave you everything and you shoved it back down her throat until she choked on it, until she came back crawling and asked you what she did, until her palms and knees were scraped for want of just a little affection - never be this woman, I’m told, because she’s a joke and the joke is that she dared to have more emotion than you did. The truth is, I’m told, the one who cares less in a partnership is the one who wins. I didn’t know this was a competition.
5. The Cóck Tease, certified strípper, how dare that girl look like that and not want me to sleep with her. Lúst is always personified as a lady in red with a dress slit up her thigh. Lúst is sinful because it’s power, it’s not asking for attention - it’s demanding it. I’m told she is the worst kind of woman, that looking good is supposed to be some kind of shame on her kin. I’m told not to leave the house in such a short skirt, not with a shirt so low, not with a lace back, not with high heels, not dressed like that. My lipstick can’t be too red, my hair can’t be too mussed, I can’t just “turn someone on like that and then leave them wanting.” I mentioned that instant gratification actually ruins our psyche and was told that being led on was “exhausting.” I said that there was a difference between purposefully tricking someone into liking you and just being attractive or friendly. I was told there’s also a difference between coffee and tea but both result in caffeine. I said, “I’ve been turned on in class by the girls I talk to but I didn’t expect anything from them,” and they said, “It’s different, you’re not a man,” but couldn’t explain where that difference was.
6. A Slút, obviously ruined by another person’s touch. It doesn’t matter how many people she’s actually been with, it’s all about the rumors she carries with her. Easy. Hárlot. You’ll still try to get with her, you’ll still take her into your bed and kiss her and say things you don’t mean - but you’ll defame her name when you talk to your buddies. My father used to say “A slút is fine for the night, but the vírgin is who you take home and marry.” Maybe he didn’t know he was teaching his daughter to hate her séxuality. Maybe he didn’t know that every time she’d be kissed, her whole system would shake until she felt ready to combust, shame and self-hatred shivering against her spine. Maybe he didn’t know she’d disconnect emotions and séx because he always told her, “Boys are different, they won’t care about you.” Nobody said to her that it was okay to experiment. See, the funny thing is, I’m a dancer so I know exactly where my center of gravity is. I know how hard I’ll fall in each direction. Yet out of fear of getting hurt, I won’t let a single person inside of my bed.
7. The Soulmate. Never love romance more than you love being cynical. Never show weakness, never like pink, never think maybe you might find someone nice and settle down with them. Someone will find you, I was told, And if you’re lucky, he’ll put up with you when you start getting old. Never be the woman who believes in happily ever after, never be dumb enough to think maybe someone could love you after all of your mistakes. It has nothing to do with whether or not a family is important to you and you’re in a good place where a relationship would make your life better - you’re not a princess. You don’t get married, you settle.
8. The Girl With Strength, who can outrun everyone and who is stronger than her boyfriend. “See the thing about boys,” says my daddy, “Is that you have to let them win.” I sat at home and read stories about Artemis and wanted to become the huntress, too. I wanted to howl at the moon, I wanted to slay the beasts that bested me, I wanted to rule my kingdom with bloody fists. But girls are never athletes, never supposed to be “built,” regardless of the fact civilizations were constructed on our spines and we made homes in war by the steel of our ribs. Never be strong. We are supposed to wilt.
9. The Lady CEO: because if you choose work over family, are you really a girl? How dare you fight your way to the top through every pair of eyes that bore through your blouse, through every meeting where you were hushed by the sound of someone else talking, through every time someone called you “sweetie,” how dare you yearn for something. Is your husband the stay-at-home one? I can’t imagine how that is going. He’s not a real man, after all. I don’t give it long before the divorce. How dare you decide you’re happy being single. Don’t you know you’re supposed to bear children. Where is your honor? Where is your wisdom? Who cares if you are the leader, the best suited for your position, the quickest-thinking, the one who makes the hardest clients come back again. Don’t you see? Across history, women have been terrible at success. They always lose their man in the end. (When I said, “I would rather be a famous author than a mediocre mother,” I was told, “No, don’t worry, you’ll be a fine mommy.”)
10. THE GIRL I AM: FIRECRACKER AND DON’T YOU FÚCKING FORGET IT I’LL RIP YOU TO SHREDS AND I WON’T FÚCKING REGRET IT I’M NOT YOUR PRETTY GIRL I’M NOT YOUR ANYTHING I’M PERFECT, MOTHERFÚCKER, AND I’M NOT GOING TO GIVE UP WHAT I’M DOING. I DON’T WANT TO BE “LADYLIKE” THAT LITERALLY MEANS NOTHING I’M NOT GOING TO STOP STANDING UP AND DEMANDING WHAT’S COMING TO ME. I’M GONNA BE SOMEBODY. I’M GONNA MAKE THEM REMEMBER ME. I REFUSE TO BE OVERSHADOWED IN HISTORY. I DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WERE TRYING TO CREATE BUT YOU MADE ME A DRAGON YOU PUT ME IN THE FIRE AND WHEN I STOPPED BURNING I LEARNED HOW TO GLOW DON’T THINK YOU CAN STOP ME YOU CAN’T TAME A TORNADO.
