The most dangerous time for an abused women is when she
leaves. The abuser will try to make her sound to be the problem.
He will try to turn people against her. He will make sure that he
has a reason she has to communicate with him. He will try to
manipulate get and everyone aroumd her that she knows and loves.
When he realizes that the " I LOVE YOUS" and the " I AM SORRYS"
aren't working it turns to violence. Then he's sorry again and
loves you. The hardest part knowing this will happen and knowing
YOU HAVE TO GO.... YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHOICE. Some people don't
understand that. Knowing you WILL go through this without who was
your best amd maybe only friend is a lot of the reason women
don't leave. We are victimized by them everyday (in ways we never
knew were possible) by both them amd the community. In a way....
It would have been earlier to stay. You know how you are going to
be victimized. You can see it coming. When you leave and after
you leave.... There is no end to the harassment they inflict on
people. Please remember this when you find out someone was
victimized. Definitely keep an open mind when you hear a story
and put yourself in their shoes as much as possible.