I need some help. I kind of like this guy... that's not my boyfriend.

I need some help.

I kind of like this guy... that's not my boyfriend. But he's a total player. And he has a girlfriend...He's a really close friend, and we hang out a lot. More than I hang out with my boyfriend anymore. My boyfriend is kind of clingy and it gets really annoying sometimes. But he's really sweet. Too sweet. Which is also annoying. I want a guy who can tease me, damnit! And the guy I'm starting to like that's not my boyfriend... there's a lot of rumors about him. Like that he feels up girls against their will and stuff like that. But I KNOW him! And I just don't think it's true. I've never hung out alone with him. But we made plans for this monday. We hung out today, and he was all over me. He had his arm around me the entire time and was hugging me a lot. When his arm was around me, it wasn't around my shoulder, it was around my waist. After, he was texting me. And asked if he made me uncomfortable or anything, and I said no, because he didn't. And then he asked me if I liked him all over me like he was. I didn't really know how to answer that. When we hung out today, we hung out with this other guy too. And he asked me if he wanted the other guy there when we hung out again. I said I didn't really care, but I don't think he likes me very much. And he agreed. The other guy is my best friend's boyfriend. So I told her about it, and she asked him. And he completely denied not liking me. So I don't know if this was just an excuse to get me alone with him. And he kept asking "so it'll just be me and you..?" after. I don't know what to do, but if he tries something on me, there is no way I can be with my boyfriend after that. And if this guy dumps his girlfriend for me, I'm not sure I want to be with him either because he's such a player, and I don't want to get hurt. And I'm scared right now. Really scared. I'm not scared that he'll try something on me, because I'm pretty sure I won't resist. But I'm scared of getting hurt.



Please help me.