The words "it's over" don't make the pain. It's after

The words "it's over" don't make the pain.
It's after all that
When you're on your own, and all you want to do is text him.
When you're hating that it's so easy for him not to contact you , so you know you have to be strong enough not to reach for your phone and contact him.
It's that aching in your heart  when you think of him, when you think of all the hurt and pain between you. 
When you're desperatley wanting  him to text you, but he doesn't.
His Silence is the painful thing.