Sorry this isnt pretty but I really need some help with this:
So I got mad at my friend a few days ago because after me and my boyfriend broke up, she started texting him alot and decided to become his friend.
This started to bother me, so I told her she was crossing a line and making me really uncomfortable by doing that. I said she couldn't be friends with my ex. It would have been different if they had been friends before but they hadn't been, so it was just really weird. She agreed and said she wouldn't talk to him anymore.
So today I found out she had been texting him all Sunday while hanging out with another one of our friends.
I told her that if she ever talked to him again then I'd never talk to HER again. She said I was being unfair and controlling by making her choose.
I said, "Yes, I am making you choose. I'm making you choose between keeping your best friend you've had since 3-years-old, and keeping in contact with some guy who doesn't even mean anything to you and probably doesn't want to talk to you that much anyway."
So she decided to throw away our friendship. And she still doesn't understand what is so wrong about talking to my ex.
So am I crazy or is she the one with issues?
Fave if you think I'm right and that she is totally crossing a line.
Comment if you think what she is doing is fine and tell why.
So I got mad at my friend a few days ago because after me and my boyfriend broke up, she started texting him alot and decided to become his friend.
This started to bother me, so I told her she was crossing a line and making me really uncomfortable by doing that. I said she couldn't be friends with my ex. It would have been different if they had been friends before but they hadn't been, so it was just really weird. She agreed and said she wouldn't talk to him anymore.
So today I found out she had been texting him all Sunday while hanging out with another one of our friends.
I told her that if she ever talked to him again then I'd never talk to HER again. She said I was being unfair and controlling by making her choose.
I said, "Yes, I am making you choose. I'm making you choose between keeping your best friend you've had since 3-years-old, and keeping in contact with some guy who doesn't even mean anything to you and probably doesn't want to talk to you that much anyway."
So she decided to throw away our friendship. And she still doesn't understand what is so wrong about talking to my ex.
So am I crazy or is she the one with issues?
Fave if you think I'm right and that she is totally crossing a line.
Comment if you think what she is doing is fine and tell why.
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Kenzie77
1 decade ago
if she wuz yer friend you would of treated her right
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notime4stopsigns
1 decade ago
but she apologized and so now its all good. idk if she understands why i dont want her doing that but whatever. id rather not know. but the thing is that by giving him the attention of another girl, even if she isnt interested in him, it makes it harder to miss me and he wont come back to me. i know that if a bunch of guys started talking to me after a breakup then i would be fine.
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notime4stopsigns
1 decade ago
well the thing is that we may get back together, i still love him and she knows that. plus there is after all the code of bffs: dont date her ex. EVER. we both know and follow that rule.
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maddie26764
1 decade ago
dont take this the wrong way but he is your EX and i dont think u should care what they do i mean if your watching out for her from getting hurt ok but i mean that is there life not yours
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DiaDeath
1 decade ago
just tell her why your uncomfortable with it, then it's all good :]
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