I ended up ignoring him like the whole time because he didnt say a word to me its just hard. He like neglects me and we fight all the time

Well sweetheart, trust him until he, himself gives you a reason not to. Next time y'all go somewhere & he does that, you dont let him know that its bothering you. You ignore him, like he did you. Your young, dont let him drag you down.

we're turning 14 and we've been together for 9 months. But i don't think it was for her..i think it was to play ball. But i ended up going anyway..but he ignored me the whole time

it wouldnt be horrible. But he is going to see another girl, I'd be having a fit. How old are y'all & how long have you been together ?