The Dash 1996 - Linda Ellis -
I read of a man who
stood to speak at the
funeral of a
friend. He
referred to the dates on her tombstone from the
beginning...to
the end«. He noted that
first came the date of her
birth and spoke
of the following date with tears, but he said what
mattered most
of all was the dash between those years. For that
dash represents
all the t i m e that she spent
alive on earth...
and now only those who
loved her know what that
little line is worth. For it
matters not how
much we own; the cars....the house...the cash. What matters is how we live and love and
how we spend our dash. So think about this long and
hard... are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is
left that can
still be rearranged. If we could
just s l o w d o
w n enough to consider what's
true and real, and always try to
understand the way other people feel. And be less quick
to
anger, and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives
like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with
respect, and
more often wear a smile...
remembering that this special dash might
only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being
read with your
life's actions to rehash... would you
be proud of the things they say
about ---> how
you spend
your dash?