If you really do love him, fight for him. Dont just stand back

Isn't working for me.............. won't even talk to me.

fighting isnt working for me.. </3

see, if i tried this, i'm not sure it would work. i mean my boyfriend has this best friend that happens to be a girl. it drives me crazy, because there always at each other's houses. i want to fight for him so bad, but i'm so scared he might find me annoying because i'm always constantly talking to him and...i dont know what to do! :(

true :)

This works! I like this guy and he has a girlfriend, but he's already admitted to me things aren't working out with them. He texts me every night and we talk way more than they even do. He still says he likes her, but through what I see, I wouldn't count on it. He knows I like him, and he cares about me and even said he wouldn't let anything happen to me. I get nervous when I'm around him, but he'll always know how much I love him. At first I didn't know he was dating anyone, but he still admitted that he talks to me more than her. I feel bad, cause I feel like I'm in the middle of them two, but then I don't. I also feel bad for her, because she doesn't even know who I am, and she thinks she has a guy who will spend every minute in the world with her, but on the other end he's talking to me, about every thing he loves about me. I can't stop loving him. My heart will always love him and I wish he loved me as much as I loved him though. :/

Sorry , just venting.

thank you, i needed to read this.

I like this one guy at my school, but he's really popular. I've texted hime before, but he never replies. I'm too shy to flirt with him. I always compare myself to other girls he's around and I feel so less in comparison. I don't know what to do.

WOW. It feels like this quote is meant for me.. because the EXACT SAME thing is happening in my life right now...

i agree with yourcool.. if you love something, set it free.. if it comes back to you, it was always yours, if it doesn't, it was never meant to be..

well the one i really love is gay! what can i do about that?

especially when hes talking to your bestfriend..

I feel for all of the girls out there that love a guy and they dont know how you feel

i cant he hates me so much and called me the c word for va jay jay. hes all i legit think about :'(

if only it was really this easy! He is dating like my "best friend"! I hate it. He is always telling me how he loves her. and how much he really does. I sit there every night text him hey...he doesn't reply. he actually has been latley though! goshhh! It is so annoying. I love him. He is mine. he was for four years. then he stopped! i love him sooooo much! No one will ever know! My friends just think I am this freak...but i can't just stop loving someone! on March 13th that will be his 5th year of knowing that I liked(love) him!

Sorry just venttin'! don't mind me!

But if you really loved him and knew he was really in love with someone else and was truly happy with her, then you would let him be happy. You shouldn't just take someone from someone else just because you want them all to yourself. Be certain that they care for you as much as you care for them. Because you might be being selfish by taking him away from true happiness.

Sorry, just a vent.

...hence why I walked away instead of fighting. I knew that he was really into her, his best friend that he's known for years, while I'm someone that he literally met only once and spoke to just a few times. Yeah, he sounds like a great guy, and yeah, he may not actually end up with her, but if he's not fighting for me in the slightest, why should I bother? As in, if he doesn't even want to hang out, at all, if he doesn't want to really be friends with me in "real life," and if he's not going to reach out to me... then I'm gone. So, I am. (sorry, also venting here, lol)

^ this, this exactly

Wow, I feel like this already happened to me :( I liked this guy but I never really told him how I feel and nows he's going out with some other girl.... And it literally kills me everytime I see them together :/