Guy Question#8 Q (asked by Lissa): If a guy is your friend, and

Guy Question#8
Q (asked by Lissa): If a guy is your friend, and comes to you for allll his girl advice, has told you all of his secrets, is there for you when you need someone to talk to, makes sure that you dont listen to people who call you names ect. What is he? He acts like a boyfriend, but isnt. what does he see in us if he acts this way?

A: He may have feelings for you. Let me get that out first, that he may have feelings for you, but if neither of you have told each other that or have clearly stated that you are bf and gf, then the guy does not see you as a gf. If he has feelings for you, he might see you as a future gf. If not... then he just sees you as a REALLY good friend, maybe secretively a best friend. sometimes guys can't be the same kind of friend girls can be, so we need female friends to balance ourselves. Anyway, he probably sees you as a great friend, but for now, since your relationship status is unclear, you can not be certain. Do you have feelings for him? If you do, being great friends could be a good thing and a bad thing. Good: bc if you ever date, then you will already be close to each other. Bad: If you ever date and break up, it may ruin your friendship. Sorry, I went kinda off topic. Good luck.
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