Girls, i need
advice.
So i met this guy in the beginning of the year at a football game and we instantly clicked. We have soo much in common including where were from. We live in North Carolina but were both from Long Island, in NY. But anywayy, we've been bestfriends ever since. And everyone knows you always falll for your bestfriend which is completely true. My other guy friends talk to him on the bus about me and they say he always nice stuff about me and they keep telling him to ask me out and he's always just like ' i really like her but were bestfriends so idk' and my friends are just like ' thats why you guys would be perfect for eachother!' And everytime were together people always say stuff like " awwwh look at them! how cute!' and " dude just ask her out alredy!' and we both get annoyed with it sometimes. So my friend thats a girl was texting him asking him why he hasnt asked me out yet and he said " idk, people just keep telling me to do stuff ( as in ask me out. nothing bad ) and i just feel like theres too much pressure on me"
I really like him and he really likes me but i dont want him to ask me out because he thinks he's been pressured into it. I want him to ask me out because he wants to. I just dont know if i should tell him that or just wait it out and see what happens. Any advice?
I know this is long but if you read it all, that means alot. thank youu<3
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So i met this guy in the beginning of the year at a football game and we instantly clicked. We have soo much in common including where were from. We live in North Carolina but were both from Long Island, in NY. But anywayy, we've been bestfriends ever since. And everyone knows you always falll for your bestfriend which is completely true. My other guy friends talk to him on the bus about me and they say he always nice stuff about me and they keep telling him to ask me out and he's always just like ' i really like her but were bestfriends so idk' and my friends are just like ' thats why you guys would be perfect for eachother!' And everytime were together people always say stuff like " awwwh look at them! how cute!' and " dude just ask her out alredy!' and we both get annoyed with it sometimes. So my friend thats a girl was texting him asking him why he hasnt asked me out yet and he said " idk, people just keep telling me to do stuff ( as in ask me out. nothing bad ) and i just feel like theres too much pressure on me"
I really like him and he really likes me but i dont want him to ask me out because he thinks he's been pressured into it. I want him to ask me out because he wants to. I just dont know if i should tell him that or just wait it out and see what happens. Any advice?
I know this is long but if you read it all, that means alot. thank youu<3
♥
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loveisthemovement22
1 decade ago
just go up to him & kiss him really passionately & say ' i'd love to be your girl if you'd ask me to'
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xxkeepthebitchescomingxx
1 decade ago
tell him you really like him, and that you don't want him to feel pressured to ask you out. then just give him a little time and i have a feeling you guys will be together :) hope it works out!
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soccerninja101
1 decade ago
KISS HIM!!!
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pshjessikuh14
1 decade ago
Just tell him exactly what you said here. Let him know that you really like him but you want him to be wih you for you, not cause he was pressured into it. Or build up the courage and ask him yourself. :D
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poprocks2379
1 decade ago
ok im not the best advice giver but i would say that if you both really like eachother and you seem like youre meant to be, then i think you should tell him what you feel. I think it will help him feel less pressured and more comfortable. don't know if this will help you or not, if you want, you can ask 'SheDreamer' she gave me really good advice :)
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