So,
there's this guy,
and he's also my best guy friend. Like, we're super close. We were best friends in pre-k, but after that we went to different schools. We met again in middle school, and instantly clicked. I'm going to be a sophmore and I've been fully in love with him since 7th grade. I haven't told him, and in 8th grade I told all of my friends. Through those years, I realized that he likes this other girl. He's had two girlfriends, one that broke his heart 3 times, and he still wants her back. That's when I told all of my friends that I don't like him anymore; about 6 months ago. Today, my best friend texted me and told me she likes him, and she thinks he's going to ask her out. But I know that he won't; he still loves his ex. I know I would; she's beautiful and sweet, and I want to hate her but I can't because she makes him so happy. And the thing is that this guy is one of those people that can make you feel like you're the most important person in the world, and my friend is convinced that he likes her, but that's just the way he is. I can't stand it; my best friend is changing right before my eyes. She's letting it get to her head and she thinks that 2 other guys like her (that both have girlfriends). So now I'm using my last 10 minutes of today to vent to witty; the only place I know that I won't get judged and that other people can relate. I'm sitting on my bed, sobbing more than ever, trying not to give into my OCD that hasn't bothered me for months, waiting for all of my mom's guests. In about 10 minutes, I'm going to have to socialize because it's Fourth of July when all I want to do is listen to Adele music and eat ice cream. I'm sorry that this is such a huge vent, but if you're still reading this and you're in/have been in a similar situation, I would appreciate some advice or something, because I'm literally falling apart.
~Love always, Sarah<3
and he's also my best guy friend. Like, we're super close. We were best friends in pre-k, but after that we went to different schools. We met again in middle school, and instantly clicked. I'm going to be a sophmore and I've been fully in love with him since 7th grade. I haven't told him, and in 8th grade I told all of my friends. Through those years, I realized that he likes this other girl. He's had two girlfriends, one that broke his heart 3 times, and he still wants her back. That's when I told all of my friends that I don't like him anymore; about 6 months ago. Today, my best friend texted me and told me she likes him, and she thinks he's going to ask her out. But I know that he won't; he still loves his ex. I know I would; she's beautiful and sweet, and I want to hate her but I can't because she makes him so happy. And the thing is that this guy is one of those people that can make you feel like you're the most important person in the world, and my friend is convinced that he likes her, but that's just the way he is. I can't stand it; my best friend is changing right before my eyes. She's letting it get to her head and she thinks that 2 other guys like her (that both have girlfriends). So now I'm using my last 10 minutes of today to vent to witty; the only place I know that I won't get judged and that other people can relate. I'm sitting on my bed, sobbing more than ever, trying not to give into my OCD that hasn't bothered me for months, waiting for all of my mom's guests. In about 10 minutes, I'm going to have to socialize because it's Fourth of July when all I want to do is listen to Adele music and eat ice cream. I'm sorry that this is such a huge vent, but if you're still reading this and you're in/have been in a similar situation, I would appreciate some advice or something, because I'm literally falling apart.
~Love always, Sarah<3
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gmarie
1 decade ago
You can talk to me!!! I'm kind of in a similar-ish situation.
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xxoliviaxx226
1 decade ago
hey! I know how you feel! I'm always here if you need mee!
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rooftops*
1 decade ago
This guy sounds great, he really does. You NEED to tell him your feelings. Otherwise you'll regret it. I understand that you don't want to hurt your friend or get turned down but knowing how he feels is better than sitting here and waiting. Tell him, okay? I know, its hard. You love your friend and you love him, but your "friend" if she was your real friend she wouldn't do this to you.. Its sad to here, but it's true. I'm sorry.. I know it sucks and hurts. But don''t sit around and wait for soemthing that might not happen, go after him. I'm begging you, don't sit around and wait. you'll regret it.
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