I have a confession. my 11 year old brother bullies me almost

my brother does the same thing. he's 14 and I'm almost 18 tho. he's stronger than me and almost taller then me. I've had black eyes and bruises. it's more physical for me but he insults me as he does it. the names and insults hurt more than the kicks to the ribs or punches in the face tho. I'm always here for you if you need to talk about it (:

My brother does exacly the same and guess what? he is 11 too. My parents dont care, so these tips help me.
1) ignore him!!!
2) dont look at him
3) look bored and go uh-huah when he insults you
4) when he hits you (this works) look at him straight in the eye and whisper "Is this what your going to do to your wife? Your CHILDREN?! calm down, please. Im sorry ok? Let me be there for you! im your big sister!" Say this everytime ok? x

I'm sorry, I don't usually like it when siblings are horrible to each other, or worse, usually don't talk, but I think that's what you should do. Don't listen to your brother and let him affect you that way. If you can, try to avoid him at all costs as much as you can. If you can't face him or tell your parents, the best solution is to just avoid/ignore him. I do hope he stops being so mean though. Please stop harming yourself, it's not good and it makes me sad to hear.

Listen, it may hurt you a few times. But HIT HIM like seriously.
Please
Slap him across the face or punch him in the nose, so then even if he hits you other people will be like "How did YOU get hurt?" 'My sister...' and he'll be embarrassed. Because he seriously needs to learn its not right. Stand up for your self, its not as bad as you think. And he'll start stopping if you do it. c: I promise. Ive been through it.

I'm so sorry, and it's going to seem like I'm ignoring the while story, but I have to ask.

How'd you get it into the vent category?

Im not trying to be rude but i know it will sound like i am but that is not a true brother. No person should feel hated by there own family. family is suppose to stick together. ya words hurt but it what you think about yourself that matters. i know it hards cause when you hear the words he calls you to sit and think about them over and over but know this IRRELEVANT PEOPLE SAY AND DO IRRELEVANT THINGS. you are you so be comfortable with yourself. and tell your brother how you feel. if he doesnt listen then play fire with fire. i know two wrongs dont make a right but sometimes for a person to understand they need to go through the same thing also. but im not saying to take it to the extreme or anything... hopefully this is a little help. GOODLUCK. btw your fine the way you are.

Hey, I'm here to talk if it helps. My brother does this to me, to. It hurts, and I don't know what to do about it. It helps if you have someone to talk to :)