sonder
n. the realization that each random
passerby is living a life as vivid
and complex as your own -
populated with their own ambitions,
friends, routines, worries and
inherited craziness - an epic story
that continues invisibly around
you like an anthill sprawling deep
underground, with elaborate
passageways to thousands of other
lives that you'll never know
existed, in which you might appear
only once, as an extra sipping
coffee in the background, as a blur
of traffic passing on the highway,
as a lighted window at dusk.