I disagree. You should be in love with someone whose personality you like, but if you don't find them attractive AT ALL then it will be very difficult to be intimate with that person and even have children.
It's kind of true. I mean, yeah, you kind of have to see them as attractive to be intimate (what if you find them attractive but you aren't an intimate person in that way?) But I'm pretty sure that this quote isn't like "only date them for their personalities! to hell with looks!" but "don't fall in love with someone just over their looks, fall for their personality". The way I fall is I fall for the person's personality, and then I realize how cute, or attractive, or sexy they are. It's personality first type of thing...
Pansexual here, I like people for their personalities, not their looks (that's just icing on the cake, usually I just use that for like, looking instead of other things...), their gender identity, their ...
I fell in love with out even knowing what he looked liked at first then after like a month of us just talking I finally got to see him. His looks were nothing to me but his personalty was everything