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So I'm Sitting Here Crying. While My Best Friend, Just Got Asked

So I'm Sitting Here Crying.

While My Best Friend, Just Got Asked Out

By The Guy I Have A Crush On, And She Accepted.

We Have Been Friends For Three Years, And I Just Found Out On Facebook

But When She Has A Crush On A Guy, She Always Tells Me

Not To Go Out With Him Because Apparently It's Not Fair,

I Now Have To Pretend To Be Happy For Them,

This Is Going To Be So Hard

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48 Comments

AlyssaXx4434 1 decade ago

I'm sorry, that must be hard. Something similar happened to me and my ex best friend. I dated a guy and we broke up, then she got with him. We weren't friends ever again.

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AwkwardlyFiona* 1 decade ago

Do you know what? You don't have to take that. You text her right now, telling her how unhappy you are. It doesn't matter if you loose her, because she's not a true friend! Just stand up to her! Then tell ur crush ur bff broke up with him, and then ask out her crush. See how she likes it!

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hobowithasticker 1 decade ago

haha, I had the same thing happen to me, its just great isn't it! you can talk to me whenever

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Time_of_my_life 1 decade ago

I'm so sorry. And this might be harsh but she's not a true friend if she does that. My ex boyfriend asked out my best friend last year and she said no because she knew how much I liked him - that's being a true friend. If she really cared for you, she wouldn't do that. You stand your ground, stay strong and let her know that that's not okay. <3

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wittyquotesgurl 1 decade ago

aw man, that really sucks. but dont pretend to be happy for her, biitch slap her. okay jk but stand up for yourself. i hope things will get better for you.

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

thanks <3

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wittyquotesgurl 1 decade ago

your welcome :)

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Dammitlala 1 decade ago

You have every right to tell her what you think, the same happens to me and honestly it's the worst thing ever, she shows how much she really values your friendship together. She's obviously taking advantage because you're pretending you don't care, stand up for yourself I say :o ♥

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

thank you. I didn't realise how much it would hurt to see their facebook relationship thing

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Pennockian 1 decade ago

I would be so mad at her! Like, what gives her the right?

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I was talking to his best friend like five minutes ago, and i found out why the guy i like, likes my best friend. He likes her because she agreed to take her shirt off while they were video calling each other.

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Pennockian 1 decade ago

*gasp* well now u know hes a creep anyway :(

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[deleted] 1 decade ago

my friend did this to me. I had a conversation with her and told her that she shouldn't go out with a guy i like if i can't go out with a guy she likes. I also told her she was being such an awful friend. she broke up with him. that was 2 years ago and she's still trying to make it up to me

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[deleted] 1 decade ago

Yup. Same situation. A bit different, but it's hard as heck to be happy for them when I wanna go "OMIGOD SHUT UP YOU TWO ARE SO ANNOYING GOD."

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

Ikr. Its so hard :/ Im so close to tell her to get lost. Im so over her

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[deleted] 1 decade ago

I know right. i just really wanna apply a slight pressure to both of their throats, that they could die from.

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CarCar27 1 decade ago

If you need to talk, I'm here for you.
Right when I was rebuilding a friendship with my best friend once I got out of a relationship with him, and one of my friends started going out with him.
I'll help you through it:)

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

thank you<3

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dreamtobeyoungforever 1 decade ago

the same thing is happening to me right now.... talk to me if you would like.

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DreamingDirectioner 1 decade ago

why pretend to be happy? You shouldn't ever have to fake it. Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't accept it tell her to go herself. :)

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DreamingDirectioner 1 decade ago

*fxxxck not forget

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

thats so true :/ i guess your right

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TurquoiseSea 1 decade ago

Hey, if she was a real friend and knew that you like him, then she wouldn`t have gone out with him. I`m sorry sweetie<3

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I realise that now, unfortunely. :/ <3

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sky* 1 decade ago

I have to question; does stuff like this happen often? Unfair stuff?

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

What do you mean?

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sky* 1 decade ago

Like...you know how what she did to you is considered mean or unfair? Does stuff like that happen often? Not with guys but other stuff?

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

Yea, this is like the second time she has dont this to me. But she tried to take my other best friend away from me. :/

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sky* 1 decade ago

That's not a good sign. I had a friend like that. (My only best friend, actually.) After years of a strained friendship from things similar, we finally blew up at each other and ended up not being friends. You should talk to her about how you feel before things get worse. That probably sounds really hard to do but in the end you'll be glad for whatever happened for doing it.

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

i'm just over it. i am going to talk to her about it on monday.

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sky* 1 decade ago

^.^

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

Thank you by the way. I guess i just need to talk to someone about it.

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sky* 1 decade ago

No problem. I don't like when I see people talk about their friends being mean or their friendships falling apart, etc. It makes me want to help. (Sorry if my advice wasn't really..helpful. O_o)

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

No, it was. :)

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

Did she know you liked him? If she did, TELL HER omg. Thats so not fair on her part...
You are way to good of a friend for her to do that! Dont be mean about it, but talk to her about it. She needs to know. Best friends dont keep secrets from each other. :)

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

Yea she did know. She asked me if I still liked him and I said yes. :(

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

What happened after that? did she apologize or anything?

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I only found out like an hour ago. And she still hasnt spoken to me. I found out on facebook

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

She is being a bad friend.. :/ like, an hour is enough time to at least say 'Im sorry'. If she doesnt talk about it with you tomorrow, you may need to have a serious talk with her.. like, not being fair with her bestfriend when you always stay away from her crushes. Dont tell her to break up with the guy, but tell her that wasnt right of her, as a bestfriend. :c Im so sorry, btw </3

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I know :/ But i guess what hurt the most is that she doesn't even like the guy. ugh.

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

Is she like using him?! Thats so wrong. Omg. I feel bad for the guy! :c ..yeah, honestly, I think you may need to re-evaluate your 'bestfriends'..because a serious true loyal bestfriend wouldnt date the guy her bestfriend liked (first!!) and 2: DEFINITELY wouldnt just use him! :/

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I am :/ i have had enough of her. I know this sounds wrong, but I kinda want him to go out with the guy she likes just to show her how it feels. But idk....

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

Do whatever you want with her, not another person thats totally not involved in this. You would end up hurting them, not worth it. Tell her off or whatever, but leave the other guy alone, you know? I can totally understand why youve had enough of her. I have a similar friend. Like, she can do whatever she wants but I have to follow her rules. Total bullsh/t. Not a good friend. At all.

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MissMicky754 1 decade ago

I'm just sick of her. the guy she likes already asked me out and he still likes me. I just don't know what to do :/

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TurtleRawr 1 decade ago

You'd end up hurting him, and that wouldnt be fair to him. I dont think you'd appreciate someone going out with you for revenge, so even though youre really p/ssed at her it really wouldnt be a good idea. But, you can ask him to help you. Instead of leading him on, tell him whats happened and ask if he will help you get revenge by ACTING like you guys are dating. That way he wont get hurt. :D

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