Day Two- November 7, 2O12 My boyfriend is my savior. He's

im adopted my birthmom had me when she was 15 put the baby up for adoption it will be best for the baby just promise me u will not have an abortion remember you have so many ppl who love you during this time u can always talk to me if u need to i luv u good luck <3

I can relate to what your going through somewhat. But then again, i cant. Because your younger than i was when i had my little girl. Im 19 and i just had my little girl. I honestly think, that if you dont think you can handle school, work, and a baby at the same time, that you may look at adoption. But then again, you might want to keep your baby. A baby is a wonderful gift. Yeah when i found out i was pregnant i was graduating high school and going into college, but i was also terrified, i didnt want to be a parent yet, i didnt believe that i was ready to do it. But i pulled myself together and married the one i love, and now im doing ok. Yeah its hard, cause its not easy being a teen parent. But its also a wonderful feeling to know that no mater what, your always have that one person there for you, your child. So i think you and your spouse should continue to talk about things and try to agree on one descion. I hope the best for you guys, and im here if you have any questions at all! Good luck!

Okay I know I can't even come close to imagining what you're going through, but please, whatever you do do NOT abort that poor baby. That baby can't stick up for itself and aborting it would be murder. Adoption is a perfectly fine option if you can't support him or her. Good luck and keep me updated!!(:

I think if you're not stable in having a job, school, relationship, and a child all at the same time, you should have an abortion or put it up for adoption.

Or audition for MTV. (lol sarcasm)

Okay, hear me out. I honestly think the best thing to do is abort or at least put it up for adoption. You're 16 and that's not the right time for having a baby, you've got to live your life; get an education, get a good job , go on holidays and party.
I think you need to be a teenager first.. I know a baby is exciting and amazing but I don't think it'll be so good for the baby. If you can't provide everything it needs.. well that's not good. The economy is bad and with jobs going left right and center, I don't think you could be stable enough for a child. I'm guessing the families could help but it's putting pressure on them too.

I know it's not my decision and I'm sorry if you don't like that I've been saying but you asked what would be best and this is my honest opinion.
I just want you to be kind and fair to yourself.

Please let me know what you're going to do and if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here.
Have a great day <3

put it up for adoption, but keep in touch with the parents of it so you can watch it grow but you just wont be with it everyday. stay strong <3

Those similar thoughts went through my mind when I found out my girlfriend was pregnant. Aubree and I have been together for 2 years and 10 months. We're both seniors in high school and NEED to finish school. We've both made plans for our future and where we would go to collage and everything, and I had to give up a few things.
Being a parent is hard, and something that is not going to come off as easy at first, but you learn how to deal with it. Kenley was born September 21st, and I'm still in school, passing all my classes and have 2 jobs, and I love Kenley so much.
It's honestly the best thing that has ever happened to me.
I"m against abortions, personally. If you don't want a baby, then please know that there are couples out there that are not able to have a baby that want one more than anything, you'd be able to change their lives forever.
I'm here for advice or someone to talk to.
(:

Stop getting yourself pregnant, have an abortion and finish School.

Excuse me? How can you even live with yourself posting that comment? That's your opinion on the way to handle the situation but I strongly encourage you to voice your opinion somewhere else or don't go out and put it in the way that you did.

kill it

Have the baby! And if he loves you're will stay with you and you will have a family:) or if u can't support it put it up for adoption!!

Thanks Girl. He's definitely staying by my side no matter what we decide. He and I are deeply in love and wouldnt lose each other for anything. We're still disucussing. But right abortion is out of the question. It's either we keep it or we have an open adoption. Ill keep you and everyone updated (: